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Girl Talk 4w
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This guy I’m talking to checks every single important box for me and treats me exactly how I want excepttttt for the fact that idk if I’m attracted to him.. should I give it a shot and maybe chemistry might develop or don’t risk it?
#poll
Yes give it a chance (f)
No don’t risk it (f)
Yes give it a chance (m)
No don’t risk it (m)
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Anonymous 4w

I say yes bc I feel like often times we’re told that if you don’t immediately have chemistry with someone don’t date them but chemistry is something that develops over time and if he’s doing all the right things 🤷🏽‍♀️ what could it hurt.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I agree but I don’t wanna hurt him if I end up never gaining attraction towards him and he treats me perfectly 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

That’s valid. I’m ngl I’m the avoidant attachment type so I don’t really know how to help you. He sounds like a nice guy though maybe try explaining that you want to see if you can build attraction/ connection so that way he knows what to expect.

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