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same for trans men btw keep in mind transsexuality happens because the brain is of the opposite sex of the body. some of the most mysogynistic men i have met have been trans men.
Women, remember, GAY MEN ARE NOT OUR ALLIES
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Anonymous 11w

Thats a sweeping statement of how trans ppl work. Maybe u or your friends work that way but def not everyone

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Anonymous 11w

damn I’ve never seen that but I believe you 100%. I kinda assumed trans men wouldn’t be even if they have a male brain they still lived a female life experience so they should get it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

I mean is it not scientifically/medically described as gender dysphoria? not feeling the gender mentally that you were assigned at birth physically

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

it is there are just some people who have no personality and want appropriate a medical disorder or people who think they don’t have dysphoria but really do.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Many trans guys i know sort of dont realize that some of the stuff they used to say pre transition now comes across much worse after it. Not an excuse but just smth ive seen a lot, its esp shitty when they make excuses for it because they used to be a woman or girl or whatever

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

it’s this and the brain sex thing and all the many of them feel the need to prove their masculinity and do that by being misogynistic

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Okay didnt realize youre a terf but that makes sense. Gender isnt a binary and whats true for some isnt true for everyone

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

My dx says "gender incongruence" and i feel like thats a good way to describe it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

i’m not a terf i’m actually the opposite i’m a trans inclusive radical femininity and that includes criticising trans men for when they do male things

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

*radical feminist ugh this app and the autocorrect

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

The whole "appropriate medical disorder" thing is def terf rhetoric

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

ok mija you can think what you want i’m no continuing this argument because it’s circular on your end and quite literally not true. terfs don’t believe in the brain sex theory because they hate all trans people and think they aren’t actually trans.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

these are really sweeping statements, I’m sorry if the trans men in your life are like this (many online are as well) but most of the ones I’ve seen online & all the ones ik irl are normal abt women 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

toxic masculinity can def be a death trap tho, ik trans guys who get exposed to it & say stuff w/o realizing sometimes. they’ve listened abt how it’s harmful & stopped doing it the few times it’s happened, but it’s still really concerning how much of a brainwashing ritual toxic masculinity can be 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

I’ve experienced this irl. You’re not wrong but I feel like we should lean into allyship

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