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yall actually heartless for saying you can “easily put the kid up for adoption” clearly youve never been anywhere near a abusive foster home
i’m ngl i love when men try to baby trap women and instead of it WORKING the woman just terminates her parental rights and leaves him a single father
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Anonymous 13h

The OP is just acting like children are property… so concerning

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Anonymous 11h

I recently watched videos of the perspective of kids who were adopted and let me just say adoption isnt the best, especially when you dont pick and research the adopters.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

i’m acting like children are property bc i don’t think women should have to stay just bc a man trapped them… righttttt

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

Girl when did I say that what!! You’re in the comments saying to just put the kid up for adoption like an unwanted pet

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

… when i said that if the man who tried to baby trap a woman didn’t want to actually be a father he should put the child up for adoption? is that what you’re talking about?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

I got insanely lucky with my adoption but I still have life struggles that came with it, my half brother wasn’t so lucky and had horrible experiences in foster care, his life was so rough growing up. Adoption isn’t simple

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

girl please you think every adopted child gets placed in a loving and happy home abortion will ALWAYS be the best choice when you know you don’t want to be made responsible for a child let alone a man trying to trap you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

oh my god OBVIOUSLY. and i fucking SAY THAT in the comments of that post. i’m seriously starting to think no one knows what baby trapping or reproductive coercion actually is. also abortion isn’t even legal everywhere now!! idk why you’re all acting like i said i PREFER when this happens when all i have ever said is that i love when women take control back over their own lives and don’t let themselves be controlled. if you wanna put words in my mouth that’s on you atp

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

literally one comment below the ONE time i mentioned adoption lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12h

yes only after you got pointed out lmao… my point still stands ur careless 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

ohh so now it’s not enough that i said it. i should have anticipated how people would misread my post and said it FIRST. how am i careless?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12h

cuz you been preaching bout abandoning children the whole time to get back at the baby daddy instead of other ways to not have this child if u were a real feminist you wouldnt be saying all that so easily respectfully never have a child if you even wanted one judging by ur selfish demeanor

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

i really truly hope no one ever tries to baby trap you bc your ignorance on how reproductive coercion takes place makes you a very easy target

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12h

yeah that says a lot abt who u are babes…

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11h

thank u for understanding. i dont like to talk about my childhood but i was bouncing in and out of different foster homes bc of virtually the same situation since my bio mom eventually left the house due to all the abuse from my bio dad and all my relatives refused to take me in. it took a long time before i could be adopted by my parents and itll take longer for my heart to heal. which is why ill always say abortion over adoption iyk the child wont be able to be taken care of (1/2)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

i would never blame a woman for having to put a child up for adoption unless shes also responsible for abuse but we need to make sure that we have abortion available so that kids dont have to go thru hell and back if it can be avoided… thats all… 🫶 (2/2)

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