
then he can put that baby up for adoption. and if he DIDNT want to be a father HE SHOULDNT HAVE INTENTIONALLY GOTTEN HER PREGNANT. like why is everyone allergic to men facing the consequences of their actions? calling it ‘trapping’ when ifs a man in a situation he intentionally and purposely walked into is crazy. he shouldn’t have gotten her pregnant if he didn’t want to be a father!
i just think focusing on punishing people or getting someone back for the shitty thing they did isn’t helpful and the focus should be on supporting the woman as a victim of what is ostensibly a crime and putting that child into the best home situation possible. this is one of those instances when community support is very much needed because she obviously shouldn’t be stuck with a child but giving a kid to a man like that is also a bad idea