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Confessions 2w
Hot take but Red Flag.
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Confessions 2w
My boyfriend wants to add me to his bank account. I don’t make any money, but he said he wants me to have access in case of emergency. I’ve never heard of bf/gfs doing that. Is it normal?
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Anonymous 2w

Yeah bc like… he wants to make it to where she doesn’t feel the strongest need to have her own income and feel safe enough to rely on him. Which would lead to dependency and financial control!

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Anonymous 2w

Thanks, I was feeling a little insane in that comment section at first

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Anonymous 2w

If you’re not married having a joint account is crazy😭🙏

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I felt insane reading the comments

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Girl you got some serious trust issues

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Financial abuse is common in relationships with a sole breadwinner

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

This is happening with my parents rn and it’s ruining my life I promise you this is real

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

Wait why do you say that? He just says it’s so I have access in emergencies

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