Confessions on Sidechat | i AGREE! i feel like *many* kinks/ fetishes/ bdsm are caused by trauma & porn addictions but when i say this ppl just call me vanilla/boring/ a virgin instead of acknowledging that their behavior might be unhealthy

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i AGREE! i feel like *many* kinks/ fetishes/ bdsm are caused by trauma & porn addictions but when i say this ppl just call me vanilla/boring/ a virgin instead of acknowledging that their behavior might be unhealthy

dare i say that if your kinks or fetishes emerged from trauma, you should be getting therapy for it instead of sexualizing it? idk it’s very uncomfortable as the partner to be asked to cater to fetishes that stem from abuse…

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Anonymous 6w

thank you! like i hate when people are like “dont kink shame” bro i can kink shame all i want when you think its okay to behave and speak like a child while engaging in sexual acts..

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Anonymous 6w

same, ESPECIALLY age regression. it almost always comes from some sort of past abuse which is terrible and so shitty but def shouldn’t be sexualized

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Anonymous 6w

kinks are not always caused by trauma or porn, and they arent all unhealthy coping mechanisms. they can be coping mechanisms, like exercise can be, but that does not mean they are unhealthy

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Anonymous

#2 6w

OP didn’t say they always were…

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Anonymous

#3 6w

okay see this is my problem, just because youre not okay with participating, doesnt mean its wrong. if its consenting adults, then its actually none of your business. if you dont like it, just dont participate

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Anonymous

#2 6w

lol idgaf that shit is weird

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Anonymous

OP 6w

then stfu. you cant stop me

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Anonymous

#2 6w

na na na boo boo 😝

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Anonymous

OP 6w

hehehe

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Anonymous

#1 6w

im looking sideways at BOTH parties that participate. like what do you mean you get off from seeing someone perform childlike behaviors???💀

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Anonymous

#1 6w

thank you sweetie pie 💋

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