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Confessions 18h
And now he’s gone again and our group keeps inviting her to shit out of respect for him and I am so over it. This is literally a stranger why is she going out with us and trying to become besties with the married girls as if it’ll help her odds with him
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Confessions 2w
Have childhood love, on/off situationship, he goes away for the military and I WAIT FOR HIM, and he comes back for our best friend’s wedding and he hard launches a girl he’s apparently been “in love with” for the last several months. I hate them both
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Anonymous 18h

Hey so you might be jealous. Just an observation yk. Um please seek therapy or something because your responses are quite concerning. Move on to the best of your abilities.

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Anonymous 18h

I think as a third party, it’s really obvious that you’re jealous. Anyone can see that who isn’t biased. He didn’t pick you. Move on.

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Anonymous 18h

I brought it up with the bride who just got married and was like “is this not weird??” And she was like “oh well you know she’s gonna be around for a long time so we might as well be friends while we live in the same city” but she’s probably NOT gonna be around for a long time. She’s not going to give him the things he ultimately wants in life and she really doesn’t even fit in as a random single in the group with 0 history with anyone here

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

It’s less jealousy and more just confusion. They’re super incompatible on fundamental levels and she’s just some sort of low effort rebound because he’s far away and they’re doing LDR. But the way she’s suddenly trying to integrate into our friend group is WEIRD. Especially when he’s not here to be a buffer. And even then, they met on a dating app. It’s not serious and isn’t going to ever be that serious. So she really needs to take a step back and read the room she’s walking into

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

I’ve talked about this with our friends and the common consensus is like “🤷‍♂️ well he likes her so we’ll do our best” but that’s not bc anyone actually wants anything to do with her. I don’t get why he even brought her to a wedding to introduce her to everyone. Esp bc that wedding invite literally said “no plus ones unless engaged/married” but she still showed up and sat by him at the head table bc he was the best man. Like wtf

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

There’s just too much nuance to get it all on yikyak. I’m not jealous though, just baffled

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

There really isn’t any nuance. You’re just mad he doesn’t feel the same way about you as you do to him, or doesn’t feel the way about you that you thought. I’m sorry you waited for him and he didn’t wait for you, but you’re the one who’s going to end up removed from the friend group bc of your jealousy and behavior around them, not her for being his girlfriend.

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