Anonymous #2 22h

I think if it’s really THAT important to Someone they should ask but I think that applies for both. I know the discourse in the comments was about weight not looking the same on everyone but regardless I think if people wanna ask they can although both imo is silly

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Anonymous OP 22h

Asking a girl about her weight is just something you CANT do. Like in no universe is it “allowed” socially. But a man’s height is the most commonplace of questions, they did a study and over 70% of girls on dating apps filter by height.

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Anonymous #2 22h

Fair enough yeah it is a social standard although I do think it’s odd cause personally if someone asked me I’d have no problem answering I don’t find it rude but to each their own

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Anonymous OP 22h

To take it a step further, if I workout every day and am athletic is it wrong to prefer or want someone who is also driven to workout and stay fit?

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Anonymous #2 22h

Not at all. You are allowed to ask for what you can provide. For me I workout for times a week and stay in shape I wouldn’t date anyone who’s not

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Anonymous OP 22h

Are you a guy or girl?

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Anonymous #2 22h

I’m a girl but it doesn’t matter. Both of us can hold that standard

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Anonymous OP 22h

What are your thoughts on putting a weight filter on dating apps? Since there’s a height one? I feel like I’ve been wrongly radicalized but it seems like A LOT of girls do agree with what I’m saying like yourself. 37% would agree with a weight filter

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Anonymous #2 22h

I have no clue about dating apps since I don’t use them but yea I don’t see a problem with it no point in dating someone if your scared their gonna judge you. If someone seriously wants a specific weight and you don’t like it yall aren’t a match. So I mean why not

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Anonymous OP 22h

What about an income filter?

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Anonymous #2 22h

Again I think ur only allowed to ask for what you can give so say if u make 100k u can only ask for in that range not like 30k a year asking for 1 million. So if there was one it has to match u

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Anonymous OP 21h

Interesting thanks for taking the time to answer all my questions. I was trying to see where you’d draw the line 🤣 Would you personally only date someone 6 ft or higher? I feel like for something like Tinder (hookups) go for it, but it’s shortsighted to need that for a long term relationship. Pun sorta intended

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Anonymous #2 21h

For me I don’t do hookups and sure I mean I think taller guys can be cuter but I don’t really care about height all that much aslong as their taller than me and I’m 5’4 so I’m not asking much with that haha. If it says anything my ex was 5’7 and I didn’t care at all

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Anonymous OP 21h

Cool 🫡 Thank you for letting me interrogate you LMAO. Have the best day!!

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Anonymous #2 21h

You too!!

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Anonymous #2 21h

Hey #2, as a guy who is taller than 6 feet, I empathize with shorter guys who get rejected because of their height. It’s really shitty for someone to make you feel inadequate because of immutable characteristics. However, anyone who is interested in someone *solely* based on height is a shitty person, and not someone to get involved with AT ALL, not even for a casual hookup or anything like that for (generally) a variety of reasons.

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Anonymous #3 21h

In some ways, being average height gives you a bit of an automatic filter against those kinds of shitty people. The right person for you will not give a rat’s ass about how tall or short you are, they’ll love you all the same.

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