bc it doesn’t matter. unless you can see a person and how they carry weight it means nothing. 160 on someone who’s 5’10 vs 5’2 is going to look totally different. tbh two people who weight the same and are the same height will also carry their weight different. it’s not useful for anything other than making assumptions and judging

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i never said it was lol it’s just silly to ask a question that doesn’t matter yk? like height is gonna be the same no matter what but weight changes from person to person. no one asking really cares about the number anyway, they just want to know if the person they’re talking to is fat and you can’t tell that just based off of a number

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It’s literally not it depends on sm things INCLUDING height something u cannot change

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Anonymous #2 6w

Stfu. 160 lbs on a 5f 4 frame can ONLY be within a certain range. Yes, some are more fit, but ALL THAT MASS IS SOMEWHERE. Usually fat. Coming from a skinny girl who used to be fat, STOP making excuses for the fatties to ignore being fat. It’s disrespectful to us who ACTUALLY fixed ourselves.

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Anonymous #8 6w

yeah that’s my point? unless you can see somehow and know how tall they are in proportion to their weight, just getting a number doesn’t tell you anything about how they look. you need to calm down lol

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Anonymous #2 6w

*someone

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idk if it’d be that helpful bc it doesn’t differentiate between fat/muscle. like personally i weigh more now that i’ve been going to the gym but i look a lottttt slimmer bc it’s muscle and not fat. also idk how many people know their bmi off the top of their head lol

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Anonymous #8 6w

Are you okay? Feels like you didn’t comprehend anything and ur whining for no reason.

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Anonymous #9 6w

Exactly. People really don’t have a good concept of weight because it changes and looks different on each person. Height will always be the same. But people carry weight differently. Some in more attractive ways, some in less.

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…again if you can see someone, you don’t need to ask how much they weigh. bc you can see them. i’m talking about situations like the one in this post where you can’t see the person. you’re acting crazy tho im ngl 😭

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Anonymous #2 6w

Very rarely do people have enough muscle to change the scale. Gaining just 10 pounds of muscle takes years of heavy strength training

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Anonymous #11 6w

:D that’s awesome thank youuu

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You genuinely sound like a 13 yr old. Oof

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Anonymous #9 6w

That is definitely a healthy normal body weight. Anyone who thinks 5’5” 140lbs is fat is not intelligent and/or worth your time.

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Anonymous #8 6w

And yet you’re ignoring that there are people who do not have the resources to get the medical assistance needed to lose weight. It’s not just eating and exercise. Bodies are incredibly complicated. Some people are disabled. Maybe don’t be a fucking prick to people who aren’t as fortunate as you, yeah?

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Anonymous #13 6w

Literally eat less lose weight it’s science

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Anonymous #4 6w

This year we stop frowning.

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Anonymous #4 6w

It depends where the fat is stored.

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Anonymous #8 6w

wow pick me bitch (also a former fat girl who went from 180 to 110) go fuck yourself. nobody likes you

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Anonymous #14 6w

Look at you not understanding things, how cute!

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Anonymous #14 6w

you guys must google and think your knowledgable after reading some ai overview. go actually read instead of being an idiot on yikyak

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Anonymous #16 6w

Reading says if you eat fewer calories than you expend you lose fat

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Anonymous #12 6w

it would only be her own medicine if he asked her the same question.

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Damn. Incorrect AND hateful just to be a fucking asshole. Wow.

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Anonymous #2 6w

You’re losing the argument babe

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Anonymous #18 6w

i mean i’ve been going to the gym for a while so all it sounds like is my hard work paid off :D yayyyyy

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Anonymous #2 6w

i also thought this was obvious but now i realize there’s no way anyone would know this lol but im only like 5ish pounds heavier than before i started. so definitely not a significant weight change in terms of numbers but i def look different

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Anonymous #8 6w

“Fatties”? “…disrespectful to us who…fixed ourselves”? Way to project your own insecurities lmao

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Anonymous #24 6w

Already in a war dawg

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Anonymous #23 6w

same!!!

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Anonymous #17 6w

Yeah, it’s like she was asking about a physical trait of his and he asked about a physical trait of hers. TOTALLY different. Classic.

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Anonymous #24 6w

Yes. How dare anyone say anything about anything that isn’t war? Nobody should even go to work tomorrow or do anything unless it’s war related. Thanks random Yikyak user who should probably be thinking about war rather than commenting on Yikyak. Thank you for checking in on this meaningless app to keep us all honest.

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Anonymous #2 6w

I’m a girl at 145 5’6 and my body fat is between 20-23% I think 💪 incels don’t know a woman can weigh more than 98 lbs and look fantastic

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Anonymous #9 6w

Not at all… but if you did 200, then that’s a bit of a problem

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Anonymous #5 6w

And she asked how tall. She shouldn’t care right? It’s how he looks that matters. Funny how she can ask about physical appearance but she blocks for doing the same. Idc if it’s weight, she opened the door about how someone looks so be a big girl and let that door swing both ways.

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Anonymous #17 6w

Disagree. She asked about a physical description that she cared about. He should be able to at that point as long as it’s not sexual. Yes, even weight although society scoffs at it. Ironic because if he was short, he couldn’t work on that like you can with a few extra lbs. He literally can’t change it. So to me asking height should be more offensive than weight, even if society doesn’t think so.

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Anonymous #29 6w

Then why ask about height? Why does it matter how tall a guy is in general? Personality should be what matters yet she still asked. It’s literally impossible for a short guy to change, not figuratively. Do you think short men are proud to be 5’5? Double standards are ridiculous.

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Anonymous #33 6w

Did I mention anything about height for men? No. I was talking about how women are being treated. But now that you bring it up yes it is wrong cause height shouldn’t matter. I literally mentioned nothing about that and you felt the need to start shit. Unbelievable

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Anonymous #29 6w

I’m not defending either person cause both are in the wrong. But height I feel like is less offensive because it’s just being curious. This society has made things offensive. Height is being more curious and people don’t see that as offensive. Weight is usually being asked because it matters to who is asking and if you say a number they don’t like it means you’re probs getting blocked. Society has made different meanings out of what we say and ask.

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Fucking prick

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First off ew that’s disgusting. It is ok to be bigger to an extent. If someone is laying around eating and not doing anything to help themselves then that’s not good. But the people that are trying to exercise and help themselves they shouldn’t be shamed or made fun of. No one should be shamed or made fun of. If it’s someone’s choice to not help themselves we can’t really do anything about that but that’s their choice

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Anonymous #29 6w

I exercise everyday and I eat healthy but im still bigger. Why? Cause of medical conditions and genes. And I don’t look the best cause of my height. But yk what? I’m not sitting around I take care of myself and I get great labs and my doctor says im healthy. Just because someone is bigger doesn’t mean they’re not healthy

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Anonymous #19 6w

Girl hush that’s not what I’m saying. I’m saying that there are other bigger things to care about besides a bot on Snapchat and a guy who “really gave her a taste of her own medicine.” 😒 genuinely bread and circus but wtv. The clowns must be entertained I guess.

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Anonymous #24 6w

What?? Who are you?? The clowns must be entertained? What circus have you ever gone to where you have to put on a show for the clowns? Excuse me, madam but uh… the clowns are the ones doing the entertaining thank you very much. Burn, set, match. See you in hell.

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Anonymous #29 6w

Nothing you said differentiates men from women

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Anonymous #36 6w

And I wasn’t trying to differentiate men from women. Asking anyone’s weight is not a good idea man or woman. We all have struggles. Everything I’ve said goes for both genders

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i hope not with the way he acts💀

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Anonymous caliguy6511 6w

it has no correlation. if he’s 6 foot chances are he is probably a scrawny dude who weighs 100lbs. and someone who is 5’0 and someone who is 5’10 will carry 150lbs way differently. and another thing, yall are sooo obsessed with ass and titties… you do realize those are both forms fat, right? but it’s an issue if there’s any other body fat in a female.

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Anonymous #38 6w

That’s if you want to be accurately informed. But…. I think the real reason behind the question is, a woman uses height as a way to measure desirability in a man. Something he cannot control. So men use it as a way of defense or deflection because women often argue “my genetics” but don’t want to be excluded over weight/body type. Men can feel attacked over something they can’t control, but feel like you can never judge a woman over what she says she can’t control.

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Anonymous #19 6w

some people genuinely cannot regulate their weight like they want. PCOS, diabetes, birth control, and many other things. some of you guys are actually uneducated as hell and it’s annoying.

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Anonymous #19 6w

see but its that too, different bodies carry weight very differently two 5’7 people could be 168 and look nothing alike

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Anonymous #38 6w

exactly, my bf and i weigh about the same but im shorter than him so i vary it way differently. he’s 6’1 and im 5’4. i feel that also goes to show weight and height shouldn’t matter yk

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Anonymous #38 6w

I didn’t say that was the case. I explained the intention and reasoning. Men feel attacked and get defensive. They don’t want to be judged on height like women don’t want to be judged on weight. Or I’ll simplify it… men don’t want to be judged on a number they can’t control like women don’t want to be judged on a number they can’t control. Or I’ll simply it… men want to be accepted for their bodies too.

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Anonymous #25 6w

Calories in vs calories out. If you have PCOS (I have first hand experience in my family) you don’t gain weight if you don’t put food in your mouth. Your food intake is used as fuel. PCOS does not take all of the calories and store it as fat. You are just more likely to store than excess than others. You CANNOT gain weight if you do not exceed your fuel intake. Trying to insult others as a way to win an argument is not the way to do it either.

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Anonymous #19 6w

usually men don’t have an issue being accepted. it’s always “women need to do this in order to be desirable” but it’s an issue when women have wants in a man..

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Anonymous #25 6w

I didn’t say that. I’m not condoning or backing either side of this. But I would argue that a man 5’ even would have a harder time being accepted than a man 6’. So let’s say height and weight are uncontrollable. Let’s grant that as part of the argument. Would it be ok still if a 5’6” woman reject a 5’ man? Or is that body shaming? He can’t reject her if she’s 250 lbs. that’s body shaming, right? Not accepting her for who she is. Should he be accepted for who he is? Seems fair that way.

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Anonymous #19 6w

essentially what I’m saying it’s ridiculous. That women are expected to follow societal norms, but men aren’t.

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Anonymous #25 6w

as far as beauty standards go

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Anonymous #25 6w

So the whole 6’, 6 figures and 6” isn’t a real thing? Yes I know the income isn’t a physical trait but 2/3 are in that saying.

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Anonymous #19 6w

We can’t just not eat and even thought you’ve had experience in your family you haven’t had the experience yourself so you can’t fully know what we’re going through. I have pcos and I eat the right amount and I eat healthy and I exercise three times a day every day except weekends and I’ve been at a steady weight for 2 years. So please learn your shit before speaking

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Anonymous #19 6w

Weight isn’t just as simple as calorie reduction. Medical conditions and disabilities drastically alter one’s capabilities. Eating less and exercising may work for you, but it doesn’t work for everyone. You’re speaking from a place of privilege and ignorance.

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Anonymous #19 6w

i couldn’t care less about someone height, dick size, or income. as long as i’m treated how i should be treated that’s all i care about. luckily for me i just happen to have all of those things in one guy. but none of the physical attributes or income are necessary. i have never looked for a guy based on height. i’ve always been a “bigger girl” because im short and cary weight differently and because of my genetics im built “like a man”. those are things i cannot control.

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Anonymous #25 6w

unfortunately women are held to a higher standard of needed to meet certain beauty standards to be considered pretty.

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Anonymous #29 6w

Please read your comment again. “You don’t understand how hard it is to be a girl”…. Explains the struggle of everyone. Being short is also genetics…

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someone clearly doesn’t get any😂😂😂

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Anonymous #36 6w

Yes being short is genetics. I was speaking from a woman’s standpoint and if you continued to read i literally said “not saying it’s not hard to be a guy” and the comment right above the one you just replied to I said “we all have struggles” so what’s your point.

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Anonymous #25 6w

His question and her question are both about physical appearance. No not “ya’ll” are obsessed with ass and titties. I can turn around and say y’all, referring to women are obsessed with guys that are cut with muscles only and that would be incorrect. To generalize that chose you don’t think much. Like I said, in my original post, the fact that she blocked him after he asked about her weight speaks volumes of the type of person she is.

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Anonymous #29 6w

My point is that you have added nothing to this conversation. People are going to judge you on your appearance regardless of your gender or situation. If a girl can ask a guy his height then the guy can ask weight. This is true vice versa.

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Anonymous #36 6w

I don’t think anyone should ask anyone’s weight. It’s disrespectful. And if you don’t think I’ve added to this conversation that’s your opinion and you can ignore me and go about your day.

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Anonymous #29 6w

Than it’s also disrespectful to ask about someone’s height🤝 done deal good day✌️

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Anonymous #36 6w

Ah before I leave I want to mention I’m 6’2 and 280 lbs. I am fat and am not short just find the double standard irritating

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Anonymous #36 6w

Whatever dude I don’t think it’s disrespectful cause most people don’t care. It’s just curiosity unlike weight where people judge and it actually matters to people but good day to you too thank you for your contribution. It’s okay to disagree. We have different opinions

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Anonymous #29 6w

You don’t think it’s disrespectful because you’re not disrespected by it. Short men are extremely judged and it affects their lives. Step outside of your own perspective. Just because you’re fat and it affects you doesn’t make your problem worse than theirs. Especially because you have more control over your problem than they do genetics or not. You can still work harder they can’t work toward being taller. Ignorant af

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Anonymous #36 6w

So you clearly don’t understand anything you’re talking about, but congrats on your first day of thinking!

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Anonymous #36 6w

I may be wrong but I think people read it the wrong way. Height is not a problem. I don’t think men are necessarily judged by it cause they can’t help it I think it’s just preferences which I think height shouldn’t matter but that’s my opinion weight is more seen as an issue than a preference to people and is judged more. Also I never said my problems worse. I have no doubt men are judged cause people suck in this world.if you read my other comments I work my ass off and don’t have much control

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You can’t change genetics 🫶

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Anonymous #28 6w

Problem for you maybe….. you’re shallow and it’s sad

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You don’t have to be fat understand people you peacock

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Anonymous #29 6w

Every gram of fat on your body was once something you voluntarily put into your mouth.

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Anonymous #15 6w

What did that have to do with the above comment. Literally nothing. Everyone has to voluntarily eat or else you die. Everyone has to eat. And it doesn’t matter how much you eat or what you eat it depends on exercise. But for some of us no matter what we do it doesn’t seem to be enough. Why’d you come and comment man. It’s been quiet since last night and all morning and you just had to start up

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Anonymous #29 6w

What you eat and how much definitely matters… In fact it’s more important than how much you exercise when it comes to losing weight. Exercising only makes you lose weight if you’re eating right or working out like an animal (still need healthy calories).

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Anonymous #36 6w

In terms of being healthy what you eat matters. in terms of losing weight exercise matters most. You know how many people eat pizza and cake and muffins and chips and junk all day but exercise enough and still lose weight? A lot.

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You’re right metabolism is a huge factor

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Anonymous caliguy6511 6w

No but why can’t he just ask her about her height as well? Height is unchangeable and there are definitely also guys who don’t like to date certain heights in women. Her blocking him is silly, but guys ask the weight question as a “gotcha” moment when they rly aren’t equivalent

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I’m literally skinny. Go back to middle school

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Anonymous #10 6w

I have never heard a man complain about a women’s height… I have heard plenty of women complain about a man’s height. These are both physique questions. Both are rude to ask but also valid if that’s your criteria.

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Anonymous #36 6w

I have. Most guys I’ve met don’t wanna date girls taller than them. My point is they are both physical questions but one makes less sense to ask unless you’re actually obese. Because weight distribution is different for everyone

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Anonymous #29 6w

Eating is required. Gluttony is optional. The fat did not magically appear on your body. You ate it. All of it.

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Anonymous #15 6w

Truth! And the refused to exercise!

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Anonymous #29 6w

Not really. What you eat effects a large portion of your health. Exercise is mainly for your cardiovascular while the way you eat affects your cardiovascular, blood sugar, blood pressure, cholesterol. You need both to be healthy. My original battle here was to fight the double standard but it’s actually concerning how some of y’all just don’t understand what healthy is. It’s ok to be overweight but encouraging it like it’s not reversible is harmful.

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Anonymous #36 6w

Yes you need both to be healthy I never said you don’t need either to be healthy. In terms of losing weight eating healthy has different calories than eating junk so eating healthy would help when exercising cause it’s easier to burn off but really it doesn’t matter too much cause it depends how much you exercise to lose weight. I understand what healthy is and I am healthy cause I eat healthy and I exercise every day and it shows on my labs and what my doctor tells me.

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Anonymous #29 6w

I may be bigger but at least im healthy. I’m not encouraging being overweight. Never did I say “omg go girl!! Be overweight it’s okk!!” And sometimes it’s really not reversible or very hard to change and that’s what’s ok. If someone is sitting around doing nothing that’s not good but that’s their choice. If you’re taking care of yourself and you’re still overweight and you can’t change that then that’s ok. What you look like shouldn’t matter. How healthy you are should matter

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Anonymous #15 6w

If that was the case everyone would be bigger. Eating is required but not every case is gluttony. You’re acting like every single person is doing the wrong thing and just eating and eating. There’s other factors like medical conditions which we’ve already covered and there’s also the need for exercise. Just because you’re “perfect” and think you do everything right doesn’t mean you know everything about everyone else

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Anonymous #29 6w

Isn’t that the whole debate of this post? Why wouldn’t that be brought up?

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Anonymous #40 6w

this is kinda funny. Because I mentioned nothing about the height. There was a different conversation happening in this one big conversation and I made a general post towards the weight argument and said nothing about height so when it was mentioned for no reason that’s what’s ridiculous

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Anonymous #29 6w

The entire conversation is pointing out the double standard. Y’all think it’s ok to call out a guy for his height but go crazy when called out for weight.

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Anonymous #36 6w

I’m not getting into this again. Pls read my other comments abt the height

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Anonymous #29 6w

Why are you here if you’re not talking about the subject at hand?

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Anonymous #36 6w

Because I’ve already said everything I need to say and I don’t want to type it all out again when you can read what I’ve said before

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Anonymous #29 6w

Please just leave. Nobody is interested in talking about your specific situation. We are debating the double standard not whether or not it’s ok to be fat. I personally wouldn’t ask a woman their weight because I have eyes but if it’s ok to judge someone for their height it is ok to judge for their weight.

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Anonymous #36 6w

It’s not about my specific situation. My situation is an example for other parts of this conversation like sometimes it’s not always controllable. Like I said before I may be wrong but I don’t think men are being judged for their height. I think it’s preference and because of that some men may be rejected but that’s not their fault cause they can’t change their height and it’s ok for other people to have preferences. I think men are taking it as judgement when it’s not

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Anonymous #29 6w

I hear people say sorry “im not interested in a shorter guy” but I don’t hear people say “omg you’re so short that’s disgusting try growing more”

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Anonymous #29 6w

Yea and not wanting to date a fat person is a preference too. I think you take it as judgement when it’s not.

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Anonymous #36 6w

You’re right it is a preference but there’s a difference between preference and bullying. Bigger people are judged wayyy more and bullied about it more than height is. Because weight is seen as changeable and disgusting thing. Everyone automatically assumes a bigger person isn’t taking care of themselves and they’re just fat. Weight is seen more as an issue and problem than height. If you don’t look a certain way it’s a problem but height isn’t a problem

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Anonymous #29 6w

So you’d like people to have more empathy toward bigger people? I totally agree with you that people judge bigger people more than people on height. And I feel like that’s valid? But it’s a known stat that MOST girls on apps filter 6ft and higher when that is only 18% of the population

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Anonymous #40 6w

Well yes. Asking weight is more disrespectful in my opinion because people are looking for a specific answer. I think height is more curiosity. And yes most girls probably have that filter set for that height but I think that goes with preference. I don’t think it’s right because height shouldn’t matter if you’re being treated right. I think 6ft might be a little exaggerated tho. I think girls want someone that’s taller whether by one inch or multiple and majority of guys are under 6ft

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Anonymous #29 6w

You’re outlook on this conversation is skewed. Please stop sharing your opinion

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Anonymous #36 6w

You just said yourself it’s an opinion. Opinion is an opinion. I never said I was 100% correct. I may be wrong about things but these are my opinions. And it’s ok to disagree on things. that’s the point of a conversation to talk about things. If you disagree that doesn’t mean I have to leave. You don’t have to read what I say either. I’m not trying to be rude or mean but I have a right to share because everyone’s opinions and experiences matter..

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Anonymous #29 6w

As I said before you are only putting your situation above those you do not have the right to speak on. Your opinion has only highlighted that because you struggle with weight it shouldn’t be discussed but short men should just deal with the fact. You’re a hypocrite.

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Anonymous #36 6w

I’m not putting my struggle over anyone’s. We all have struggles and that’s because of how this society is shaped today. No one’s struggle is harder than the other person. I know im a woman and not a man. I have mentioned already that I may be wrong. But I still have a voice to share my opinion and thoughts. I don’t see how im a hypocrite but ok. And what I’ve said yes I do struggle with weight but the point is it’s disrespectful to anyone to ask weight and there’s other factors.

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Anonymous #20 6w

Rejecting someone based off of height (something they can’t control) is looked at as a healthy boundary for women. Rejecting someone based off of weight (something most people CAN control) is looked at body shaming for men. The logic is wrong. Neither should matter as long as you’re doing your best to be healthy. Attraction should be much more about personality than looks.

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Anonymous #15 5w

Wrong :)

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