Anonymous #2 4w

There’s nothing to defend. What if he never had a daughter? Who cares. You know how many 20 something year olds date 40-50 year olds. Holy shit. Get out of your bubble

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Anonymous OP 4w

then he would be a weirdo for dating someone half his age…? was that supposed to be a gotcha moment? 💀 my guy

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Anonymous #2 4w

But let me guess it’s fine for a woman to date a man young enough to be her son? What does normal even mean? Pedophilia was normal in some cultures, does that make it right? Because it was “normal?” If your perception of right and wrong is based of the concept of normality it just means you have no logic or argument to defend your feelings on the matter.

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Anonymous #3 4w

no???? why would that be okay???????? are you ok??????????

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Anonymous #3 4w

it is weird because they are in two drastically different positions in life in terms of development, maturity, and life experience. there quite literally is no reason why you should desire someone half your age. i pinky promise that you cannot and will not change my mind.

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Anonymous #3 4w

not to mention a weird ass power dynamic

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Anonymous #3 4w

plus according to your logic, if i only believed in things that were “normal”, then i would 100% be a believer in an age gap like this because by technicality, it is permissible by law. those who only follow guidelines lean on justifications such as “well it’s a rule so it must be fine”. surprise, no, it’s not fine. especially from a morality perspective. you also are a person who is a product of already existing societal standards. no thought of yours is your own. you were also conditioned.

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Anonymous #2 4w

So a 60 year old can’t date a 40 year old if his daughter is 37?

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Anonymous #5 4w

i think they r thinking more a dude in his 40s getting with a girl in her 20s which happens more often than u’d think

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Anonymous #5 4w

40 is a dramatically different level of life experience than 20. the comparison you’re trying to make doesn’t work here. the situation is a 23 year old with a 40-50 year old man. that is not acceptable.

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Anonymous #5 4w

would it be a little interesting to see? yes. but you are very well matured by 40 years old.

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Anonymous #6 4w

not infantilizing just giving opinions from similar experiences. Plus personally feel that young girls need to experience life on their own inside of like graduating and 2 years out living with a man a decade older

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Anonymous #4 4w

It doesn’t matter how YOU feel about it, its not your life and its not your business. They’re far above the age of consent and even further above the drinking age, they’re grown adults, and they have the right to choose to live their life how they see fit, and if they dont see spending their 20’s single as appealing then that’s their choice.

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Anonymous #6 4w

Not OUR business but they r posting it for ppls commentary and thats what we r giving nothing wrong with we r welcome to share our opinions and experiences if someone is PUBLICLY posting about it and ASKING for responses

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Anonymous #4 4w

And it doesn’t occur to you that judging and making statements about people you don’t even know the names of isn’t gonna be very accurate? Your opinion is irrelevant based on nothing but vibes, you even said “I don’t care” when presented with the simple fact that adults can make their own decisions

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