Update: the women of the group have collectivized and gave an ultimatum to the organizers that there needs to be better boundaries and support or we’re not going to come anymore. Right now the men are like 50/50 so we’ll see if anything changes.
For the girlies in nerd spaces, have you experienced dudes immediately asking you out and acting like every woman is a prospect? Every woman in my board game group including me has been asked out by multiple guys, usually as soon as we show up