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No. And please on both sides of the coin can we STOP USING VIRGINITY/ BODY COUNT as a measure of someone’s sexual value?! How bout talk about how he/she treats you, how you feel around them (etc). Don’t have needless sex just to check a box!
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Is it bad that I’m 23 M and haven’t found a relationship? I mean I’ve kissed/ had sex/ gave received head/ etc… but to be with someone long term it hasn’t come to me… like do girls find it a turn off?
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Anonymous 2w

Thank you omg I hate how our generation views sex. It’s so unhealthy and leads to so much unnecessary hate

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Anonymous 2w

Hot take but I don’t think there’s an issue with people caring about body count by itself. I just think it’s weird when men care about a woman’s body count but then will justify himself sleeping with hundreds of women. The double standard is what’s weird.

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Anonymous 2w

Do it because you want to and you found someone who you believe will make it good for u!!

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Anonymous 2w

Listen im the Original OP and it seems like in our generation that “experience” means more than anything and it means more than personality and more than looks…wish I could travel back in time when like dating was real and finding people in a bar or a club was natural and not so judgemental or forced

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Anonymous 2w

I just got dubbed for being a virgin by a girl who was showing extreme interest in me before, we talked on a real level and I told her, I’m 22 and I’m attractive I just have made an effort to not have sex until I meet a girl I want to date. It actually break my heart bruh no woman has loved me, it’s only lust

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Anonymous 1w

I definitely agree it's dumb to have needles sex just to lose your virginity

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Especially around women, but even men too. We don’t go around telling everyone how much money is in our bank accounts or our weekly allowances but we do tell everyone about our sex lives? What? Sex is a private matter that must be influenced by you, the person you want to do it with and your morals. NO ONE ELSE!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Like guys barely want to talk to girls anymore in a club or bar bc either 1. the girl thinks they’re asking for sex or 2. The girl is waiting for the most attractive man to approach them

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Idk how old you are but for everyone I know definitely not true

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

I’m 23 and yea it’s actually very true

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

So am I

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Guess we know and interact with very different people. My friends are all either married, in a serious relationship, single and looking for a serious relationship, or single and haven’t touched a man in years

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

We ones looking for sex left that before 23 and I think almost everyone was below average they went with, not picky enough if anything if we are going purely looks wise

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

The ones*

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

I do agree but I think it shouldn’t tie into how people see you unless they have sexual intentions

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

I agree. The majority of experiences out on night ventures as a young man do go like this. Sometimes I just want someone to talk to, or genuinely want to get to know a woman, or make a new friend with either gender. The truth that is unfortunately popular is that most men are just out to see what woman they can be intimate with next. And that goes both directions really, although men are not often approached by women, as women are men. I, for reference, am also 23.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2w

Preach man…PREACH

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

And it’s not like I don’t wanna have sex I’ve held out thinking my wife coming maybe it’s all bs I’m so close to folding idek what’s the point anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

Don’t fold bro stay strong

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

wtf is the point I thought I found the girl who I wanted to lose it to and thought it was all worth it n she was just playin the role cus she wanted to fk, I’m lost right now

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

You really gonna let some fake ass person change your perspective?

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

just think of this

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