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Is it bad that I’m 23 M and haven’t found a relationship? I mean I’ve kissed/ had sex/ gave received head/ etc… but to be with someone long term it hasn’t come to me… like do girls find it a turn off?
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Anonymous 2w

not in and of itself

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Anonymous 2w

I mean honestly it can be because you lack general relationship and partnership experience, but that doesn’t necessarily mean you would be a bad partner so long as you are a responsible guy already

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Anonymous 2w

no, so long as we’re both looking for a relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Wym?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I would never find someone's inexperience a turnoff by itself, but (and I'm not saying this is you) if someone is inexperienced because they have a bad personality or some other red flags, the two things would be correlated in me finding them as a person to be unattractive

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Gotcha thanks

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

I mean I’ve seen what good partners look like and what shitty partners look like and can clearly tell the difference sooo🤷🏻

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Well yeah but not everyone knows the basics to adulting like cooking or cleaning and splitting chores so like

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Gotcha makes sense now

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