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Incel behavior hasn’t become mainstream, a lot of nice good looking and wonderful men are single and so a lot of men feel like women are being mean and not dating them
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does anyone else feel like incel behavior has become super mainstream? i was helping a guy on here with advice and he kept saying women dont want nice men they all date cheaters and hate lover boys its like talking to brick walls
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Anonymous 10w

the idea that not being dated is the same as a woman being mean to them is the EXACT incel behavior that OP of the first post is talking about

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Anonymous 10w

i dont doubt that!!! im just saying waiting for one to find me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Maybe you should flirt and or ask out

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

Nowadays I see the men women reject me for by seeing their instagram and it honestly seems like it’s either racism (which is mean) or liking “cool” men (also mean) is why I’m single

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

i have! all my boyfriends have been me asking

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

or maybe they can sense that you are insecure? i know that sometimes dating sucks and men and women can be so awful and reject harshly, but nobody is obligated to say yes!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Nobody is obligated to say no but it’s a bit weird that some many aren’t interested. Maybe I do come off as insecure

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

*to say yes sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

i think for a lot of women they just dont want to date period if that makes you feel better, you aren’t competing with other guys, you are competing with herself and her friends!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Yeah I know that is what I hate because men are meant to have wives and women are meant to have husbands and I hate that I have to be perfect otherwise she’s “happier without a man”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Getting a sense for why you may have trouble with women

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