Anonymous twirling_tornado 1d

If you want to express your opinions on things like this, a place where someone is struggling is usually a horrible place to start.

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 1d

shaming people doesn’t stop abortions

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 1d

Go adopt 10 children from the foster care system who are here because abortions weren’t accessible. You won’t… Because you don’t care about children🥰🖕

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Anonymous #2 1d

haha yeah you can be sure of that

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 1d

are you talking about OP’s “struggle” of being irresponsible and getting his gf pregnant and then having HER go through an abortion?? 💀 yeah i don’t think OP has much of a struggle here

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Anonymous #2 1d

maybe if we shamed men more for irresponsibly getting their gfs pregnant and then having zero personal consequences for it then it wouldnt happen as often

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Anonymous #5 1d

are you saying kids in foster care are better off dead than not being adopted yet?

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 1d

I’m talking about OP’s genuine struggle of seeing his girlfriend suffer and having the stress of a medical procedure. Of having something in life go wrong. Is he not allowed to feel remorse or upset over his loved one going through something stressful? I mean… if someone I loved had an unexpected situation come up I would support them not shame them….

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 1d

have you considered that OP would not have had this “unexpected situation” come up in the first place if he was actually a responsible bf acting in her best interests and that this “unexpected situation” of his gf suffering is entirely his fault?

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 1d

We don’t know if they used a condom or not. We have NO prior context on how this happened. So stop being an asshole Tornado. I know you like to promote your values but do that away from people. You comment this shit on women talking about pregnancy, abortions what have you.

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 1d

additionally his attitude of “fingers crossed this never happens again” is pmo because wdym fingers crossed???? this is a completely avoidable situation. she shouldn’t have had to suffer at all in the first place

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Anonymous strawberry_hair 1d

actually OP agreed with #2 that it wouldnt have happened if he had put a condom on properly

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 1d

the fact that ur defending this man and feeling sorry for him causing his gf to suffer is ridiculous

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 1d

As an ex foster care kid, I’d have rather never been born and yall can’t tell me shit that would change my mind. Existing is just pain for some people. Stay tf out of other peoples business so more children don’t have to go through a life full of trauma because of systems made to harm and not help them. Even in instances where the kids might be ok, still not your business.

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 1d

My birth mother was a pregnant 13 year old and no one allowed her to do what would’ve been best for herself. SHE was still a child and had to have me.

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Anonymous #5 1d

are you saying you would rather be dead than alive right now?

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 1d

and that if there are people who have a lot of problems and pain in life then it would be better if we just kill all of those people?

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 22h

listen, there is nothing more that me and my partner want then to be parents but the fact of the matter is is that we are young and we do not have the financial nor emotional capability to raise a child right now. Yes by all means this was preventable but neither of us saw this coming as she as PCOS and im considered infertile. As the man I know that my “struggle” pales in comparison to what she just had to go though and that guilt will weigh on me for a long long time.

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Anonymous OP 22h

regardless rest assured this is a lesson learned on both of our ends. What matters is that we have each other now and shes doing much better now and we’re gonna work together to help navigate through it. Again, I love this girl very very much and we both will be much more careful in the future.

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Anonymous #6 22h

shes honestly probably rage baiting like most people do on this app 😅 But I see the angle shes coming but I don’t take it personally because accidents do happen at the end of the day WE are in a happy healthy relationship and this whole situation only made our relationship stronger. I plan to marry this strong gorgeous woman one day and hope to raise a family with her by my side :)

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 19h

I have my fingers crossed you do it to yourself

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