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Is it crazy to say that I think it is a small pool of men continuing to assault women? Is it also crazy to say that it frustrates me even more that THOSE MEN ARE STILL FREE
Hear me out, as a man, I couldn’t imagine raping a woman, none of the men I’ve been friends with have either. But every woman I’ve ever gotten close with has a rape story, who are all these rapists? Is it just college guys? How common is this?
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Very common
Some woman lie about it
Not that common
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Anonymous 3w

I think it’s this and also the fact that there’s a lot of scenarios that people fail to consider when discussing assault. Coercion for one thing but also people often overlook cases of partner/spouse r*pe because there’s this belief in “consent by default” when it comes to relationships

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Anonymous 3w

No that definitely is true but also regular ass men just don’t understand consent and might unintentionally commit sexual abuse

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Anonymous 3w

There’s a dude that lives close by and he’s a registered sex offender and it has all his charges on line and he changes his appearance when he takes his pic. Shaves his beard and head. And then lets it all grow out again. His crimes are nasty. More than one I can’t believe he’s out. And walking around, he acts all friendly with all the neighbors too. wtf

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Anonymous 3w

It’s not crazy. That’s literally what studies of DV, SA, and rape crimes committed by men show. It’s 14 victims per offender on average (amongst college aged men), so yes it is absolutely a small pool of monsters who are like sharks that smell blood in the water and have unfortunately perfected their methods of luring in victims

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Anonymous 3w

Yep we rarely actually are able to bring assaulters to justice. Unfortunately for every assaulter or rapist there is usually 2-3 guys (and occasionally girls) willing to excuse or even cover for their behavior

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Anonymous 3w

I do just want to add that, as a guy, I know several men who were accused of rape and are innocent Accusation /= automatic truth

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Unfortunately as a woman it’s not worth risking finding out if these things are true or not better safe than sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

It’s safest to assume it’s true

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

It’s like pedophiles. Just chop off what’s causing them to be able to do those offenses, and if they continue, just eternal misery in the worst conditions possible in confinement until death. Until they get sent to God and he can judge them too

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

Use your dih? Chop it off. Use hands to keep offending? Those are gone too. Use your feet? Welp congrats buddy you’re now Mr potato head but with just the head

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

It’s not normal to know several men accused of rape unless you hang out with a very shitty kind of guy or a very shitty kind of girl. Genuinely on what grounds do you know they are innocent, rape is a hard thing to prove

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

The way I’d post screenshots of his sex offender registry page and post them around the neighborhood

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

That’s how I found out, someone put it in mail boxes down the street and he knows and don’t give a fuck. That’s when I started looking up the list my self. his crime is to multiple people underaged. So he’s for sure guilty. I just can’t figure out why he’s out.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

Same reason there’s a predator in office currently, the patriarchy

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