Anonymous #1 5w

If thats how you feel 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Anonymous #1 5w

If men can’t talk about their SA experiences without being told “but women have it worse” we get no where. This is what I mean by falling on deaf ears- you guys hear “I think men are being assaulted way more than we realize” and think I’m saying “women are awful!!!!”

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Anonymous #1 5w

Thats not what I said but okay. There are instances when we defended men downnn when it came to SA, the issue is that when some men bring it up on here its like they're trying to rub salt on a wound and instead of spreading awareness its to spread something to hold against women. I feel like we should bond over things like SA and shared experiences but instead people like to make everything into a stupid gender war that does good for nobody.

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Anonymous OP 5w

Some of you don't want women to generalize men but in the same breathe use some of these instances as a moment to generalize women and think its okay because its SA. Its bad either way it goes. I can admit that in general every one should take male SA more seriously but trying to further cause division is what causes women to be more defensive than receptive. This issue in the past has been used to troll SEVERAL times already

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Anonymous OP 5w

And this is why I said this is a disingenuous take on my post.

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Anonymous OP 5w

You cannot use the bias of others’ actions against my stated words and beliefs. Focus your energy on the men actually causing harm, not someone genuinely trying to bring awareness.

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Anonymous #1 5w

You're not trying to bring awareness at all, you're literally arguing with everyone every step of the way and pretended to not be the same op of the original post to make this a bigger thing. You are part of the problem.

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Anonymous OP 5w

I’ve never pretended to not be that op?

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Anonymous #1 5w

I’m right here

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Anonymous OP 5w

You are intentionally being obtuse at this point. That comment i made on the original post is exactly what you replied to me just now with.

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Anonymous #1 5w

Im just behaving the way you're behaving dude

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Anonymous OP 5w

My thing is, nobody is arguing that it doesn't happen to men. Infact in the og post I see women supporting the fact that male SA exists and is also a problem. Your here fighting this mystical battle against women idk if its to troll or because you have some vendetta or what, but you are solving nothing and adding to the issue

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Anonymous OP 5w

That post is filled with people answering my question “why does it fall on deaf ears” with “well women are assaulted more”. That’s not a good enough or empathetic enough answer to me, and reveals a lack of understanding about how widespread sexual assault truly is- and that it’s not just a gendered thing.

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Anonymous #1 5w

One comment was like that and your making it out to be most

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Anonymous OP 5w

Just wrong but ok whatever u clearly are just surface reading the whole situation.

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Anonymous #1 5w

Ok!

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