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I will NEVER understand how women enjoy doing oral sex that causes them discomfort. I’m sorry no disrespect to any of yall and what you are into but it’s wild to me. If I get close to my gag reflex we are stopping and doing something different
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Ask Women 4w
How would you feel if a guy got numbing spray to use on your throat before he fucked your throat?
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Anonymous 4w

And FORGET about finishing in my mouth. Ew.

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Anonymous 4w

Some people like it because it feels degrading and they’re into that, but it shouldn’t be assumed that everyone’s into it…

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Anonymous 4w

i haven’t given oral sex in so long. i honestly haven’t done it for someone in over a year, and im scared it’ll scare guys off. like i know its not a big deal but like it is truly a little embarrassing bc i used to love giving it but now i just don’t? idk also i dont like when sex is a long time, and multiple positions.. which is also a new thing for me. idk it’s just been so long and i’d love some advice

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Yeah again Im not here to shame anyone. But sometimes I worry about just how many women seem to be into degradation. I’m not saying no one can enjoy it or that they shouldn’t. But sometimes I can’t help but wonder how much of it is sexism conditioning us… or maybe I’m going too far into crazy feminist territory…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Maybe some people don’t actually like it and are in denial because they feel societal pressure to be into what men want, but others are definitely just kinky lol nothing wrong with that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Yeah, the trend is concerning. On an individual level it’s whatever, but you have to wonder when something like that becomes larger-scale :/

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

It’s also alarming how many men fantasize about violence or being rough with their women. Like my bf will literally stop if I do much as look a little sore, he almost cried once when he accidentally pulled my hair. I can’t imagine feeling loved by these men who are like “man I love watching my gf choke and be in discomfort”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Exactly!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Like we have to ask where this is coming from

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

I refuse to find it embarrassing. Preferences are preferences and if a dude isn’t ok with them he’s not for you

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