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psa to any men who saw this post and instantly got defensive in the comments or my msgs😗:
46 upvotes, 10 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Ask Women. "psa to any men who saw this post and instantly got defensive in the comments or my msgs😗:"
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480 upvotes, 34 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Ask Women. "🥰"
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Anonymous 1w

Okey dokey

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Anonymous 1w

Your post is using a false dichotomy to try and make a point when there isn't really any point to be made. Sitting there comparing apples to oranges saying all men are the same. Maybe don't try and start gender war bullshit

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

the point is there, your just not understanding it for w/e reason: men crying = not bad. rape + murder = bad. “we aren’t allowed to cry” is a bs excuse when the latter still happens even though it’s also considered something your not allowed to do

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Imagine if this were flipped on women. How would you feel? And I said oop the guilty dog barks first. Nothing really of substance in my response is there?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

It can’t be flipped on women bc women aren’t scared to cry like men are

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

How is it a false dichotomy exactly? Both sexual assault and crying as a man is socially frowned upon, correct? Yet men do it anyway

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Flip it against women I wanna see this

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Do the word “imagine if” mean anything to you 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

What does that have to do with the post

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

i think the point is sexual assault and murder are objectively so much worse in many aspects than crying but men will say they’re afraid to cry. both things u “can’t” do as a man but the one with no consequences that might actually be a healthy way to express emotion is the one they choose to refuse to do. not all men, but many men. i’ve genuinely met men who sexually assault women and/or their friends do and they act like they have to be “tough” because god forbid they cry.

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