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480 upvotes, 34 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Ask Women. "🄰"
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Anonymous 1w

realest shit ive read all day

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Anonymous 1w

More men need to cry and let out their feelings

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Anonymous 1w

Ah yes using a false dichotomy to try and make a point. Comparing apples to oranges.

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Anonymous 1w

mfs get dumber by the day

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Anonymous 1w

It’s not about being ā€œallowedā€ to do something, it’s about how people perceive us after we do. If you spent a semester showing up to class dressed nicely with a full face of makeup and then suddenly one day roll in, in PJ’s and bed head with no makeup. People are gonna suddenly have a different opinion of you too. It’s about being unable to put the magical illusion that men are invulnerable to everything, back in the jar once it’s been opened.

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Anonymous 1w

If the post stopped after the question mark i would love it but i just feel like it’s reaching for engagement too much

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Anonymous 1w
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Anonymous 1w

I don’t think this is fair. Not to hop on the ā€œnot all menā€ train but this is an unfair comparison

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Anonymous 1w

I’m jus gonna say it crying on a anonymous app isn’t finna change shit

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Anonymous 1w

yes because this all relates so perfectly to

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Anonymous 1w

Men do cry silent cry, not letting it out just makes them strong

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Anonymous 1w

yeah what should we do

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Everyone cries in life. It comes with having a nervous system.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

I always cry when I’m upset about something and I feel a lot better after

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Anonymous replying to -> typeesshit 1w

perfectly*

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

if youre around the types of people who will see you as weak or punish you for crying, im sorry and i hope that changes. it sounds exhausting

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1w

also it is unfortunately true that men can receive less consequences for violence than they do for having feelings. but be the change you wanna see on the world i guess. idk

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Anonymous replying to -> typeesshit 1w

Y’all really do.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

cry

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Anonymous replying to -> typeesshit 1w

lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 1w

Why do you think so many men have stopped dating, and just hangout with their friends? Not gonna say this is the only reason, but it’s definitely one of them.

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Anonymous 1w

do you think youre winning some kind of argument right now? because you sound sad, lonely, and bitter

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 1w

It’s not a comparison it’s simply saying go ahead and cry. You’re worried about not being able to do something but you do things you’re not supposed to do everyday anyway. If you felt offended by this I’m concerned for you

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 1w

It just feels like a very backhanded offer. Like if you’re on a diet, and debating if you want a slice or dessert, and somebody said, ā€œwell, you’re just gonna eat the whole thing anyways, so what does a slice now matterā€ šŸ˜’

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

That’s not the same comparison. Why wouldn’t you cry? And no one is eating a whole cake when they’re wanting a cheat day.

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Anonymous 1w

oh shit it's the same guy who doesn't know how to make "women" plural!

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 1w

So as a woman reading this, I read it in a negative way. I think that it’s just over all pretty gross that the two thoughts are in the same place. To bring an emotionally healthy man and the others who do horrible things as a justification for human emotion? Not offended, just really makes me sad that this is poor excuse for a pass to cry because there’s so many worse things than that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 1w

There’s much worse things than crying but if men are more scared to cry than they are to assault or harass girls that says something about the men that are afraid to do so, not the post itself. Emotions are a very normal reaction. Harm is a choice. Ofc you can choose to cry or not but harm shouldn’t be more normalized or seen more than dehumanizing and demasculinizing a human emotion everyone has

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 1w

It shouldn’t even feel like a pass to cry. No one needs a pass to cry just cry

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Anonymous 1w

It’s tears coming from your face there is no system for that but a societal masculinity thing that other men created for themselves. I promise no one cares about you crying that much compared to women’s assault. I’d think it would be much weirder if men didn’t cry bc it shows you won’t channel serious emotions

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 1w

Uhm, no, it causes harm.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

key word ā€œlikelyā€

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Anonymous replying to -> typeesshit 1w

Get yo shit together

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 1w

if it stopped after the question mark it wouldn't be darkly funny, which is clearly what it was going for

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