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why did this get a negative reaction? if you don’t relate, that’s good but that’s why i said “no one talks about”. yall are making me feel worse about my situation when i was asking for help
no one talks about how much self control it takes to not hookup. i’m fighting demons over here
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Anonymous 3w

I applaud your honest and your integrity to fight it

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Anonymous 3w

The only way I broke that cycle was realizing how empty it felt. That short term gratification would just feel like a necrotic disease on my self esteem. I eventually went to therapy and realized I just had issues with setting boundaries with people and that I needed to care more about my health.

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Anonymous 3w

Negative reaction from people like fully not understanding what you're saying, I imagine. like people who do not feel any desire to hook up are going to downvote that statement for sure

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Are there any hobbies that you have that make you lose track of time? It doesn’t have to be something you think of at first that you love to do, just that it takes up all your attention.

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