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no one talks about how much self control it takes to not hookup. i’m fighting demons over here
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Anonymous 3w

I never encountered this issue

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Anonymous 3w

it's pretty easy when no one likes you :)

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Anonymous 3w

As a guy, I just don’t talk to women and boom problem solved 😄

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Anonymous 3w

So easy not to

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

good. you don’t want it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

what? then clearly this doesn’t apply to you? 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Ok but fr though don’t do anything you don’t feel comfortable with and if you’re looking for a hookup just remember there is a very good chance you won’t hear from this person the next day. If you’re fine with that, be safe, and have fun.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

if it was easy, i wouldn’t have this issue.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

It is though, ig maybe you just have a high libido and don’t view it as special as some do (no shade)

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

i probably do and no i don’t want it. maybe if i was in a relationship it would be fine but im not so it sucks.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I’m sure you could get one

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

i’ve been ghosted so much i’m used to it now. this guy has actually ghosted me for a year. i just crave the short term attention i guess

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

ive been trying for my entire life. guys amare only interested in my sexually. ive never been asked out or taken on a date where the guy doesn’t expect sex after. dating is not something that is attainable for me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

*are

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I’m sure you can find the one, but yeah it’s rough out there sometimes

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Are you sure that’s what you’re craving? I met this one girl online one time who was begging (yes begging) for someone to take her virginity. I talked to her and what she really wanted was just stronger connections with friends, and she didn’t even realize it. We hung out a couple times but she ghosted me eventually

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

i always think i want more friends but then i make friends and realize id rather be alone. i get drained to quickly. i just want the quicker interactions. not just sexual but like 30 minute hang outs with my friends. i even got a job where i don’t have to work with many people

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I’m just saying think about what you really want, whatever it is. Maybe you do just want more hookups, I’m not here to tell you one way or the other. Just giving you food for thought.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

i think about it constantly, which is the point of my post

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