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This illustrates an example a lot of men have, which is unconditionally seeking the approval of “women” as a hive mind, and not the women they should want to be with. Why would you care about the opinion of an unintelligent woman?
Why do girls find frats boys so attractive? Aren’t they often in orgs built on toxic masculinity and laden with allegations? Or do frat boys just pretend they are hot shit and girls don’t actually want them?
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Anonymous 14h

You know what women say when an unintelligent man has an opinion? They say that they don’t give a fuck! What do men do when an unintelligent woman has an opinion? They warp their entire lives around conforming to it because they are so desperate for female approval. You should care about the opinions of the kind of women you want to be with.

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Anonymous 2h

For a lot of guys, (from my prospective not saying its true) men choose girls because they think their socially attractive, their friends will be jealous, and he looks better because of it, not because he actually likes her and finds her attractive. Some men date to fit the expectations of other men. I would say frat men are not desirable to most women

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Anonymous 10h

And they say women don’t gatekeep 😏

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

If we said this, you’d call us a “nice guy”

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Anonymous replying to -> cool_intellectual 13h

If you said “I only care about the opinions of women that are mature and intelligent” I would say you’re pretty smart actually

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Anonymous replying to -> cool_intellectual 13h

… yeah… because the “nice guy” trope treats women as though they all want a specific aesthetic. Women are individuals 🤯. Not everyone has the same type. So you are correct though I don’t think you meant to call yourself out.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

Mature and intelligent girls tend to already have boyfriends who they choose. If you’re a dude waiting for some girl of “your type” to wag your tail around, you’re already cooked, that shit doesn’t happen

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12h

It does, a lot of high quality women are single actually. The self-defeating mindset accomplishes nothing

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12h

People become single every day.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12h

Most girls find someone right away and they tend to be what they consider high value or fun

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11h

Lmao the amount of times you use the term “high value” tells me all I need to know about you and the type of women you’re chasing. Sure, a lot of women do engage in transactional relationships, so do men. But not all of either sex do. Some people want to date people, not get off on a body and move on but Tate-er-tots don’t usually comprehend that.

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