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Why do girls find frats boys so attractive? Aren’t they often in orgs built on toxic masculinity and laden with allegations? Or do frat boys just pretend they are hot shit and girls don’t actually want them?
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Anonymous 1d

I don’t find them attractive at all. Quite the opposite

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Anonymous 1d

i hate frat boys and avoid them at all costs bc they’re all full of themselves and look like mannequins

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Anonymous 1d

I don’t like the vast majority of frat men and I dislike frat culture in general. That being said there’s some more decent ones (they don’t throw parties) and oc it really does depend on the individual. My boyfriend is in one that doesn’t throw - he doesn’t go to parties, rarely drinks, doesn’t do drugs, has a fantastic gpa, and is one of the absolute sweetest nerdiest people I’ve met.

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Anonymous 1d

I don’t like frat boys. I think it depends on the person

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Anonymous 1d

White

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Anonymous 19h

Frat boys disgust me and I avoid them at all costs

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Anonymous 13h

Honestly depends on the frat and culture of them. I don’t like majority of them but as a POC I’ve only ever hung out with multi cultural fraternities and the NPHC ones. Those men in those types of frats build theirs on brotherhood and community service. I even went to a Bible study event they had it was nice

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Anonymous 13h

… we’re not a monolith. Some like frat boy aesthetic, some don’t. Personally I’ve always found the trope version of a frat boy to be nauseating and annoying. But I feel the same way about men who say “why do all girls…?” Find someone who isn’t into frat boys. They’re not hard to find so I’m assuming you’re chasing a specific aesthetic & that’s on you, bro.

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Anonymous 11h

I don’t like frat boys (the partying/hazing/douche ones) I never go to their parties unless absolutely have to. I think they are the guys I trust least on campus.

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Anonymous 18h

very heavily dependent on where you go to school and the frat culture it has. i’m friends with plenty of men in social fraternities who are genuinely good people where the org as a whole on campus has no allegations but i go to a small private school where our greek life is very different compared to big universities

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Im under the impression that the girls frat boys pull are often coerced. I’m bi and I’ve never found a frat boy attractive…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

and/or they’re frat girls. which kind of just makes frat boys normal boys to them

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Yea but frat boys are soo unsafe. If women think men in general are dangerous, frat boys are the worst of that breed. I’ve heard soo many stories

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

well they are certainly not the first group of people i would trust to watch my drink for me

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

When I talk about frat boys, I’m specifically talking about social frats (not tied to academia or a true cause). The ones that have insane hazing, throw parties every night and have an unhealthy obsession with the amount of girls they’ve slept with. I have no issues with academically linked frats in fact on of my female friends loves to call herself a frat boy.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

*one

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

The women who are cautious around men and the women who are into frat guys are usually not the same people

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 13h

When I’m talking frats, it’s mostly white ones— the ones that get all the attention at my school. Black dudes thankfully have never made me feel uncomfortable, however our Spanish frat did get terminated for roofying girls 🤮

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 11h

I know that quote is out of context on purpose but I’m hoping you were just making a badly timed joke and not fr

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Anonymous replying to -> sparkly_skeleton 10h

They continuously violate campus COCs it’s a miracle they are allowed to exist

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