Ask Women on Sidechat | Penetration has never gotten me off. The main thing I care about is if he knows how to use his fingers and mouth. The guys who focus on that instead of things they can’t change are gonna be better off.

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Ask Women 3w

Penetration has never gotten me off. The main thing I care about is if he knows how to use his fingers and mouth. The guys who focus on that instead of things they can’t change are gonna be better off.

Ask Women 3w

every time i like a guy who has a smaller dick, i generally don’t care but they are so insecure about it, they make it a huge deal and it makes then insufferable

Anonymous 3w

Yessss, when I first met my man we got drinks and when we went to hookup after he had whiskey dick, but he still got me off using other methods (and didn’t complain at all about not getting off himself, which was a huge bonus) but he genuinely thought I’d ghost him over it 💀 like no babe, that was the best possible outcome of that situation

Anonymous 3w

Nice dick is just a bonus

Anonymous 3w

THIS! I’m not super into fingering or getting head but there are other things guys can focus on during sex to make it satisfying, idk why they all think their dicks are so important

Anonymous 3w

It’s over half of women who cannot get off by penetration, it’s not just you

Anonymous 3w

Ehhh im in the middle. I need good D and good mouth and fingers 🥹

Anonymous

#3 3w

Yeah I hate it when guys put that kind of pressure on themselves. As long as you treat me well I’m not gonna hold your guy being shy against you, especially if you make sure I’m good. Honestly sometimes it’s kinda sweet depending on the reason it’s happening.

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OP 3w

Right, and personally penetrative sex is not the defining pillar of a happy relationship for me. I’d be happy if we couldn’t have sex at all as long as he continues being the person he is, I have other methods for myself lol

Anonymous

#3 3w

That’s the other thing! I think some guys have heard women (justifiably) complain about them being bad at sex some of them are trying to overcorrect. Sometimes we aren’t gonna have good sex. Sometimes only you may finish or only I may finish and that’s fine. It’s only if I’m never enjoying it that it’s an issue. It doesn’t bother me as long as I know you’re putting in the effort and genuinely treating me well.

Anonymous

OP 3w

Exactly. Sometimes it just isn’t gonna happen and that’s nothing to do with how my partner is performing