Anonymous #4 3w

And that’s before you even get into the porn they’re watching where everyone is significantly bigger. If that’s their main exposure to sex and they’re using sex as a stand in for a relationship it warps their view of what actually matters. Basically feeling insecure is normal and healthy. Wallowing is not. Meet people and touch grass.

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Anonymous #4 3w

Let’s be real most women care the majority of women aren’t going to be satisfied with a 3incher vs even an average dude

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Anonymous #5 3w

If someone has 3 inches and knows how to use his fingers and tongue like a champ (or is enthusiastic to learn) I’m keeping him. He’s gold and mine.

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Anonymous #7 3w

If you think women are going to be enthusiastically giving the three inch dude the opportunity to gain that experience after the first time you are mistaken lmao. Let’s say the guy isn’t experienced, he puts effort the first time but it’s not what the girl likes obv the girl is going to bounce and he’s back to square one

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Anonymous #5 3w

Lmfao bro, I am a woman. I prefer smaller. 3 inches is great if he has an awesome personality and knows how to use his fingers and tongue we’re gonna have a great time while I ride him to oblivion. If he doesn’t know how to use fingers and tongue we’re gonna have fun while he learns. If he’s not into tongue that’s ok but he better still be into using his fingers because I don’t cum from penetration. If he doesn’t care about getting me off he’s not someone who’d get close to my pants anyway.

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Anonymous #7 3w

You’re missing the point a three incher most likely isn’t going to know how to do all those things any more than the average guy. Which according to the women on here is supposedly rare. The three incher guy is going to be even less likely to have a that skill like do you think that skill just comes from nowhere? Lmao

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Anonymous #5 3w

Skill can be taught. Skill can be practiced. If a guy with three inches can tie a cherry stem with his tongue any girl is going to have a lot of fucking fun with him. Skill isn’t dick size and if you think the only guy that fucks good is average or above size I’ve got some suspicions about the number of orgasms a girl is having with you.

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Anonymous #7 3w

Most women aren’t going to want to teach the three incher. Hell most of them don’t want less experienced guys regardless of size and that’s often talked about on here lmao.

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Anonymous #7 3w

😂 you are a keeper

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Anonymous #8 3w

😄why thank you.

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Anonymous #5 3w

Learned how to give a good blow job from a cosmo 🤷🏻‍♀️ skill is just research applied.

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Anonymous #7 3w

You learned how to do something anyone could do in your position shocker 😱

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Anonymous #5 3w

it has happened enough, clearly

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Anonymous #5 3w

Yeah none of that’s true for a lot of women. Usually guys who aren’t in denial about being smaller KNOW they have to be able to do other things instead of making their size their personality. My ex roommie dated a guy paralyzed from the waste down and you can bet your ass he learned to use his mouth. Like an expert. If that guy can get the “opportunity to learn” an average guy can too. You don’t need dozens of women to practice with, just one. If you can’t find ONE your size isn’t the problem.

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Anonymous #7 3w

exactly

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Anonymous #5 3w

Anyone can give a good blow job? Lmfao. Tell that to my friend who had a girl bite him. Or the girl who came asking if her boyfriend should be taking half an hour+ and that she was hating the jaw pain. Gave her some tips and she seemed very happy with the results. So did he. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I just think you’re trying to give yourself a reason that you don’t leave someone pleased. It’s ok. You can learn too.

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Anonymous #7 3w

The fact he doesn’t think blowjobs are LEARNED SKILL may explain why he thinks a guy can’t get a chance to learn to please a woman without using his penis. Cause there’s a hell of a lot more that goes into a blow job than a woman just opening her mouth. How she uses her tongue, hands, lips, and neck play a huge role. Guess who had to figure that out 😭

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Anonymous #4 3w

Notice how you say a lot and not most. Seems we agree

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Anonymous #5 3w

Also, if dick size mattered, lesbians would never orgasm.

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Anonymous #7 3w

Anyone can learn to be good at a skill when the practice opportunities are infinite

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Anonymous #7 3w

It certainly matters via studies and other stats

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Anonymous #5 3w

Lmao my number isn’t in double digits. Try again babycakes.

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Anonymous #5 3w

The opportunity is only infinite if you think women are offering blow jobs to guys left and right just because they’d say yes. A woman’s willingness to have sex isn’t based on if a random guy would agree to it. We’re usually only gonna do that with someone we really like or are in a relationship with. Those two things are a lot rarer. Kind of like how if a guy finds a woman who likes HIM he can also get sex and the chance to learn.

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Anonymous #4 3w

Most gen z guys have sex 0-1 times a year most women have sex multiple times more than that simple as that

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Anonymous #5 3w

1) That’s false. The “average” Gen Z man has sex 36 times a year, lower than previous generations but still a fair amount at over every other week. And that number is similar for women. 2) You don’t have to have sex constantly to know how to do it anymore than you have to cook constantly to know how to cook. You can take something you learned having sex 2 years ago and apply it to a new partner. It’s a cumulative skill, not use it or lose it.

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Anonymous #4 3w

Right? Like everyone’s first anything sucks a little. And I’m still thanking Freya and any fertility/sex goddess out there for the Cosmo magazine in the supermarket checkout line. Because if I stayed at that skill I’d be embarrassed 🤣🤣

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You do know micro is less than 2-3 inches?

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Anonymous mochie 3w

Yeah it’s a long story. He doesn’t. I brought that up to make a point but I think my original comment does that better so I’m gonna delete the other one to avoid confusion.

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Ahh fair. A lot of men are insecure. I just tell people I have a small dick because I’m Japanese🤷

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Anonymous OP 3w

How much is “enough”

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Anonymous #5 3w

probably the every small dick guy i’ve met has brought it up. and look at the people in the comments and the amount of upvotes

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Anonymous #9 3w

I can deal with the reassurance insecure. I’m pretty likely to give words of affirmation, physical and otherwise anyway and like to make a partner feel sexy. It’s the toxic “I need to make you feel like crap so you don’t leave me” insecure that I hate.

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Anonymous mochie 3w

Apologies if I’m being naive when I ask this but I’m a little confused, is it wrong for someone to have insecurities? I guess I just don’t understand how to handle them myself?? Coming from a place of honesty I just doubt myself but I try to be rational. Ya know?

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Anonymous #10 3w

No. It’s just annoying how it so happens to be the same insecurities as everyone else.

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Anonymous #10 3w

No but it's wrong to make your insecurities everyone else's problem. Seeking reassurance is cool but if you're gf says what you're insecure about is okay for her and you don't accept that and continue to make it an issue then it's a problem

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Anonymous #1 3w

Exactly. Like who fucking cares about dick size as if it’s their whole personality.

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Anonymous mochie 3w

I guess where I’m coming from is that I would like to be the best experience in her life?? Idk where i personally got this unreal fixation but maybe porn is to blame??

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Anonymous #10 3w

Like I don’t want her to just be “okay” with it. I would like her to “want or desire” me??? Im just writing my thoughts down I recognize I may sound ridiculous

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Anonymous #10 3w

I’m sorry, but if my future partner kept bringing up insecurities, idk how long I’ll last.

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Anonymous #10 3w

Your dick size isn’t going to be what decides if it’s the best experience of her life.

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Anonymous mochie 3w

No need to be sorry it’s how you feel I understand 🙂‍↕️ that’s your boundary and it’s a make or break for you that’s totally understandable.

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Anonymous #10 3w

Desire in a healthy relationship is wholistic. It’s about your essence as a person, not just your genitals. You get that by building a sincere connection and paying attention to your partner, not by having a bit dick.

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Anonymous #10 3w

Not a make or break. I just think it’s weird how people feel that way because it also affects your partner.

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Anonymous #4 3w

I want to embody this! I recognize that is the truth I guess thats me being stubborn?? I give this energy to others yet I can’t seem to give myself the same. 😅

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Anonymous mochie 3w

Apologies for assuming! When you think about it, that’s absolutely true. It can significantly affect them, especially if it persists. I strive to ensure they aren’t bothered, which often conflicts with my honesty because I don’t choose the right time to express my feelings.

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Anonymous #10 3w

May just be you needing more positive experiences with people you care about until you can get over it. Self compassion is a learned skill, but knowing your friends wouldn’t be okay with someone treating you the way you treat yourself is something that helped me!

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Anonymous #10 3w

Just accept yourself. That’s all

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Anonymous #10 3w

I have insecurities too but I just joke about it

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Anonymous mochie 3w

💯

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Anonymous #10 3w

Sex is about way more than dick size. It all just boils down to talking to your partner and learning what they like. And relationships are about way more than sex. Just relax a bit, you’ll find someone, you’ll be fine.

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Anonymous #5 3w

he doesn’t need to come in with skill. disregarding hookups, usually you’ve been on a couple dates before you have sex. So if he’s got a good personality and the woman isn’t an asshole, he’s not getting dropped immediately after the first time. so as long as he’s willing to listen and learn what his partner likes during sex then he’ll be fine lol. This goes for everyone btw not just guys with small dicks.

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