Ask Women on Sidechat | Lemme just clarify that when I say “hit on” I mean make sexual advances towards. There seems to be some confusion in chat.. You should be able to introduce yourself and offer contact info without making sexual advances towards the person!

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Ask Women 1d

Lemme just clarify that when I say “hit on” I mean make sexual advances towards. There seems to be some confusion in chat.. You should be able to introduce yourself and offer contact info without making sexual advances towards the person!

Ask Women 1d

Women don’t usually like to be hit on by random strangers pro tip

Anonymous 1d

Curious, as someone that has always struggled trying to figure out when girls want to be flirted with, at what point do you start making sexual advances? I’ve had it be many times where I thought she was just being friendly but mf was twerking on me 😭 then I don’t realize what I should’ve done til the next day

Anonymous 1d

Nah I think people need to pick up social cues better. This guy was sitting with this woman in front of me at the bar, she was really into him but he was just enjoying the attention. I was drinking my Guinness and watching the game. First time he turned over and said “Hey, are you so and so’s daughter?” I politely smiled and said no. Then he said “don’t mean to bother you” I smiled and looked away. He turned back around 10 minutes later and said “oh you have tattoos, pull up your sleeves…

Anonymous 1d

SO true, it’s not that many men, but those few men sure do put themselves out there!

Anonymous

#1 1d

Look at mine.” I drank my beer and looked back at the TV. I got my 3rd Guinness brought over to me. In which he said “Guinness, wow you are my type of woman”. That’s when the bartender stepped in and said “She is a regular, leave her be.” Sorry for the long post. I just feel like there are context clues of someone wanting to engage in conversation. It’s very exhausting as a woman to have to do the polite smile each time and engage less and less. I didn’t want a scene caused so I stayed quiet.

Anonymous

#1 22h

I’m a neurodiverse man in the spectrum, so I’m not always the best at accurately reading social cues, but I’m working on improving in that area.

Anonymous

#2 22h

Yeah, that’s also a question to which I’m curious about! I feel like women respond poorly to me just introducing myself, initiating conversation, and offering my contact info frequently enough that I wouldn’t even think about ever making any sort of sexual advance.