
It can be exhausting being a women, you should NEVER be anti feminist, but not every single one of your actions should have to be a feminist power move, we deserve to just be human sometimes as much as men do. Yeah I dress for myself usually, but sometimes I dress nice because I want to look nice for a man, because I am attracted to men, and I want that to be ok too. Etc etc
yeah exactly like i'm not even into guys and ofc i can completely understand if women dress up for their partner or someone their attracted to and doing that doesn't make you "less feminist or anti feminist". i mean when men do the same thing and a male artist takes his shirt off on stage for example no one is criticizing that and it's just exhausting cause women especially in the public eye have to justify their every move...