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it just feels like this every time
170 upvotes, 12 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Ask Men. "it just feels like this every time"
Why dont yall ask women out anymore
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Anonymous 9w

coming from a woman, we don’t feel like it’s like this. it’s flattering to be approached. you just gotta put your pride aside and go for it

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Anonymous 9w

𝖣̶𝖺̶𝗍̶𝗂̶𝗇̶𝗀̶ Jestermaxxing*

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Anonymous 9w

Yeah agree

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Anonymous 9w

Thats the best part tho 🙂‍↕️

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Anonymous 9w

So it is.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

You’re very kind for saying that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

Nah, I’m done flattering.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

I’ve been hurt too many times to trust some random on the internet. Reminder to the guys that other men screwed us over and made every woman scared of us

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

You may be an exception, but not everyone’s rule. We lowk feel mocked when a woman tries to make us feel better in this regard. It ignores our lived experiences.

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Anonymous 8w

real.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 8w

I can’t speak for every woman, but for me, I’m not scared of every man, I’m cautious of every man. It’s like if you’ve been bit by a dog before unexpectedly. You may not be scared of every dog, but you know to be careful and aware around them just incase. The best thing you can do is take the time to deconstruct as much toxic masculinity that may be in yourself as possible. Just be a genuinely upstanding guy and the right woman will see that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 8w

Just say you’re scared of men and move on with your life

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Anonymous 8w

didn’t ask.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 8w

if you’re unwilling to look at the nuance of what she’s saying, you prob not a grown man anyways

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