Ask Men on Sidechat | This isn't a question. But thx to everyone who answered. Yes working out is good for health and confident. But seeing majority men assume it will lead to gf is alarming. As a women I notice the men who recently got fit have terrible personality

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Ask Men 1d

This isn't a question. But thx to everyone who answered. Yes working out is good for health and confident. But seeing majority men assume it will lead to gf is alarming. As a women I notice the men who recently got fit have terrible personality

Ask Men 4d

For men who struggle to get women's attention: do you believe that putting in effort at the gym to achieve a new body would help? Answer and leave a reason why

#poll

Yes

140 votes

Anonymous 1d

As someone that is not fit right now, it makes me feel less confident and healthy. I’m sure there are women that would be fine with how I look physically, but my perception of myself definitely does impact the likelihood of meeting someone

Anonymous 1d

I workout for my health, confidence, and cause I just wanna look good. I also want to be strong for my friends. Getting noticed more by women is just a an added bonus. It’ll get initial attention but obviously it won’t keep it, gotta actually be able to socialize and relate to people

Anonymous 1d

I really could rant all day. The men I've talked to, dating wise, all listen to motivational videos online. That can be helpful but it doesnt account for working on yourself mentally. Many of these motivational men speaker they profit from men's insecurity. They do it women as well and lead these impressional people with false almost dangerous dating advice. That turn misogynistic. Just wanted to bring awareness for men to be careful where you get advice from online

Anonymous 1d

Not a question

Anonymous 1d

As someone who is fit and works out I do it cuz I like dunking on people not cuz i wanna get a woman

Anonymous

OP 1d

I was recently talking to a guy who had the abs and a toned muscular arm from a dating app. Yes, his appearance and passion for working out drew me in. However, I quickly realized after he told me that he didn't have confidence until he started working out, which is why he decided to start dating again. He mostly talked about himself. Even the date was about himself. He didn't hang out with friends or did any hobbies. What drew the line for me is that he followed Andrew Tate.

Anonymous

OP 1d

I could probably write a whole thesis on this but I just wanted to say to men work on yourself mentality that a key part on landing a gf or even a better version of yourself

Anonymous

OP 1d

personally I think going to the gym is really good for mental health, you can have work or assignments built up but at the gym you can just focus, listen to music and do basic tasks of moving an object and controlled breathing. So no I don’t think having muscles gets you a gf, but the gym is a overall positive for mental health, and yeah there are dudes with big egos, but their just going to be the more vocal ones