Anonymous #2 10w

Honestly, the bullet hit him. This sounds like he got hit

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Anonymous #2 10w

Time for bandaging and recovery

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Anonymous #2 10w

It doesn’t feel like it tbh. Today was 240 days until our wedding. We’d been dating for two years. I took her on trips to Spain, England, and Florida. Never any issues. I spent days and nights in the hospital with her, and drive to be with her every weekend.

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Anonymous OP 10w

At least she showed her true colors before you got married

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Anonymous OP 10w

Wow that’s really rough. Did she give you any reason???

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Anonymous mother_russia 10w

No reason. She said “Actions speak louder than words” after I gave her everything she asked for. Quit my job to be with her in the hospital.

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Anonymous mother_russia 10w

I want to believe she’ll call me back and say she’s sorry. Or that it’s the heavy medications she’s on now. But I don’t know.

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Anonymous OP 10w

Oh wow… that’s wild. Is there anything you can think of that you started doing or stopped doing around the time she started behaving differently with you? (Not blaming you at all, just trying to figure out how to get you closure)

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Anonymous OP 10w

What are the medications for?

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Anonymous mother_russia 10w

She was weening off lexapro, she’d been on it for 14 years. She was hospitalized for what they thoughts was a stroke, but they say now was a complex migraine system. She was slurring her speech, not talking in full sentences.

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Anonymous OP 10w

Intrusive questions but have you two been having sex and has that change since she started going off of lexapro?

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Anonymous mother_russia 10w

We were, but it was a sucky sex life. I never finished. She would then push me off. Looking at it from the outside I think that’s why I was so bound to hold on. Both of us are Christian, she pressured me into it, I believed her saying that because we’re getting married it’s okay, and that she needed it to heal from SA trauma years ago.

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Anonymous mother_russia 10w

It didn’t change with her getting off of it, besides it being less satisfying. Now I just feel so ashamed. I trusted her with everything.

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Anonymous OP 10w

I proposed with my grandmothers ring that had been in the family passed down for 4 generations before that. I took her to Spain to propose. I drive to her every weekend to see her. I did everything for this woman and I loved her so much. I still do.

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Anonymous OP 10w

This weekend was supposed to be our engagement party. All of our friends were coming to my house for this cookout party. And now I’m just left alone. Some say they’re a still coming but I don’t know.

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Anonymous OP 10w

I’m sorry for the wall of text. I just don’t know what to do or say and feel so lost without her

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Anonymous OP 10w

Wow I’m really sorry to hear all of that. Have you at least gotten the ring back?

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Anonymous mother_russia 10w

No. She broke up with me tonight, and is hours away. If she’s home, it’s 5, college is 7. Since she would t speak to me I don’t know where she is. I got her a new gaming pc a few months ago because she said she wanted to play games with me. Unsure if I’ll get that back.

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Anonymous OP 10w

You should message her for the ring back asap. Not to be callous about it, it’s just important to make sure she isn’t actively stealing from you.

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Anonymous mother_russia 10w

Her parents have called my dad to make sure I get the ring back. She won’t speak to me. Her parents are upset we’ve split

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Anonymous OP 10w

Yeah that’s really wild and extremely immature on her part, I’m so sorry

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