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Would you take your wife’s last name (assuming it’s as good or better of a name)
Would you ever commit to someone who wouldn’t take your last name?
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Anonymous 4w

Yeah, I’d be fine with it

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Anonymous 4w

Whoever has the cooler last name.

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Anonymous 4w

Personally no, but it’s because I’m literally the only person in my entire extended family that can carry on my last name

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Anonymous 4w

No, but I also don’t expect my partner to take my name either

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Anonymous 4w

If it goes well with my first and middle name too then yeah

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

What if it’s the same for her?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Then I guess Itd be a conversation we would have to have with each other and our families to come to a solution. Possibly a hyphenated last name situation🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous 4w

You could hyphenate

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

You could, but I also just think the process of changing your name is a pain in the ass because you have to get other official documents changed. I don’t want to go through that, so why would I expect my partner to either? As long as we love each other, I’m happy

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

real

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