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You guys were right. He just texted me saying he’s still “hot” for me and that I could say the word if I wanted to hook up. Then he said he would come over and make my “legs shake and mind go numb.” He only made me cum once.
I need advice about my ex who wants to get back with me. He’s said some things and I’m not sure what to think of them
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Anonymous 9w

Go ahead and tell me freestyle has bad takes I saw that shit coming from a mile away

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Anonymous 9w

Oh hell nah. I knew as soon as I saw he said you were “easy to take advantage of” that he was not a great guy

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Anonymous 9w

As a women, i think what he really misses is the comfort. You were together for two years, thats pretty long time so its gonna be hard to adjust to being single afterwards. This also goes for you as well. He's reducing it down to a hook up bc he's still sexually attracted to you and probably misses the regular stream of sex you were having while in a relationship. However if you continue that it would make it impossible to truly move on

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Anonymous 9w

GUYS IT GETS WORSE. HE SAID (over text) PT 1: - “But just remember that NONE of these other college guys you’ll see would’ve stayed with you and been loyal an entire year in the same circumstances.” (He started college, I was a senior in high school, parents wouldn’t let me visit. Also stopped sending him nudes.) - “That’s what you’ll be leaving behind.” (We could be vulnerable, he accepted me for who I was. Which I realize now is bare minimum, and I also filtered so much of myself for him.)

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Anonymous 9w

Bro talked a big game to be average must be a cowboys fan.

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Anonymous 9w

We didn’t need that detail

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Anonymous replying to -> freestyle 9w

This is my first time having to stand on business so I appreciate everyone’s input

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

PT 2: - “I was the one that was loyal and loved every version of you for YOU, before you gained your confidence, lost weight, and I inspired you to be better in the first place” (I gained confidence when I realized I didn’t want to keep chasing external validation for my entire young adult life. I lost weight in an unhealthy way, but not because of him because he said he loved me the way I was. I wanted to be better for many reasons, the main one being myself.)

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

Thank you. Im telling him no! I’m not getting back with him!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

And ofc you still hooked up with him anyways 😭🥀

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

No!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

We got you bruh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Don’t listen to #4 OP

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