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AITA 8w
should i remind them ab my party this weekend. i told them ab it ab a month ago and none of them have mentioned it since and Im kinda tired of reminding and begging people to be present for me
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AITA 9w
aita for being sad both my bsfs didn’t post me for my birthday and one of them didn’t say it until 7 pm. it’s a little thing but i go so above and beyond for their birthdays and i barely get acknowledged
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Anonymous 8w

Happy belated birthday queen!! Im so sorry things are going this way, but if you see theyre only treating you this way but are present for their others, I think you should talk to them. But if youve tried talking to them (or dont want to atp) and nothing has changed, then skip the party and do something for yourself! Go on a solo hike or the old age home or a dance class or pottery or set up a blind date or paint watching the sunset. Do something for you!!! You owe it to yourself.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

I sometimes feel this way myself. Im so tired of being nice to people, while no one finds me important in their lives. Im here to talk if you need to!

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