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AITA 1w
aita for being sad both my bsfs didn’t post me for my birthday and one of them didn’t say it until 7 pm. it’s a little thing but i go so above and beyond for their birthdays and i barely get acknowledged
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Anonymous 1w

Nah, I’m pretty lowkey w birthdays myself & would actually prefer no one posted or even said anything to other ppl, but if your friend group is into that stuff/does it for others it’s totally valid to be annoyed

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Anonymous 1w

this is what i posted for her birthday btw which was less than a month ago. i also got her a cute bouquet and captain america stuffed animal for grad and posted a cute post for her grad which was the day before my birthday!

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Anonymous 1w

to top it off: nobody asked me to hang out, no gifts, no cake or ice cream, bought my own lunch and made my own dinner and slept when i got back from my only plans (meeting the kids i’m going to babysit)

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Anonymous 1w

Happy birthday queen! You deserve so much better 🤍

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Anonymous 10h

HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY BEAUTIFUL 🤩💕✨

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Anonymous replying to -> benjamin.rush 1w

yeah and the one who said it at 7 didn’t actually say it she just sent that happy birthday snap filter

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

This make me sad you deserve way better

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

my birthday has always sucked it’s genuinely just a curse at this point

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

How old are you turning

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

19!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Haha nah man your parents + other ppl love you a lot fs and def wouldn’t say that. Happy birthday from a rando on the internet if that helps at all btw. If you like being a generous person that’s a good quality don’t let others lack of that get you down

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Happy birthday!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

You choose the type of person you want to be, the type of ppl you want to be around, & what you do. I will say something to consider tho is that if you want to give, then just give selflessly without expecting anything in return from ppl—even friends & family. It keeps your heart pure that way. Maybe find some ppl who match your own energy too. Do good for good alone, & if you feel like you're doing too much where it's emotionally hurting you, maybe scale back a little to be easier on yourself

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