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AITA 17h
none of them showed up!
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AITA 2d
should i remind them ab my party this weekend. i told them ab it ab a month ago and none of them have mentioned it since and Im kinda tired of reminding and begging people to be present for me
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Anonymous 8h

(I mean this as consolation and not in a blaming way) Did you send them any invites or have a formal conversation about it? Like personally I need a legit confirmation otherwise I convince myself something isn’t happening and then it’s out of sight out of mind. Is it possible they’re the same? I’m sorry this happened!!💕

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Anonymous 16h

Are you ok

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Anonymous 7h

I’m so sorry this happened, how are you doing OP?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3h

This^ sometimes I have a lot going on, and if a plan is made a while ago it might not still be happening. Lots of people plan something and then cancel it. I need a reminder within a few days of an event to know if it's still happening

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1h

this is what i'm thinking. if i was told "oh im thinking of having a bday party weekend after my bday" a month in advance and they didn't say anything about it for a month, id assume it wasn't happening and/or forget about the conversation

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