
You donโt deserve to feel tired in your own relationship. Long term it needs to be empowering, not draining (short stints of support are fine.) Either way, Iโm proud of you for realizing you were suffocating yourself in the relationship. However, at some point itโs gonna hit you like a ton of rocks, when you need somebody to talk to about it, Iโm here.
just read your posts, so proud of you for leaving. i was in a similar boat a few years ago with my first serious bf, we took each others virginity, but he was a bum and very argumentative and had horrible road rage. towards the end it was very back and forth but we broke up and i lived on and so did he. woke up and broke up lol. life is so much easier without a man dragging me down, i hope itโs the same for you too โค๏ธ