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y’all idk if i should dump my bf or not. he has no job. he acts like it’s a problem to come see me bc he lives an hour away, so i always have to drive. he’s constantly assuming i talk to other guys. he tries to put me against my mom. furthermore, i showed
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Anonymous 4w

boy bye. sounds like my ex. he was a waste of time. now i found my husband. you will too. what a loser he sounds like

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Anonymous 4w

him and apartment i want and he made it seem like i’m trying to move farther. it’s still an hour. and ik if i did move there he wouldn’t wanna come bc kts too much driving. meanwhile he’s going to a whole other state with his friends w no problem.

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Anonymous 4w

Girl leave

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Anonymous 4w

it’s like. i love him but i’m tired. and it’s hard for me to let go bc we have good moments and he took my virginity. but it’s draining bc every time we hang out he always asks for head and when i say no he tries to guilt trip me abt it. i feel used sometimes bruh. he’s just so controlling and i think he’s a narcissist. it’s draining, truly. and there’s more.. i’m mainly holding on bc i gave him my virginity and i don’t want to regret that but i think i want to leave. i need a second opinion.

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Anonymous 4w

sounds manipulative as fuck, i feel so bad for women for these types of stories, kinda ruins it for the rest of us but anyways, dino him like a sack of potatoes, he’s coming between your family which is a no go, no job and not trying to get one means you’ll be supporting him forever, not wanting to come see you is lack of effort, AND when he does see you it’s just to fuck? yeah fuck outta here, run while you still can

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Anonymous 1w

Sounds toxic

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Anonymous 1w

Girl are you doing okay?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

dump* stupid autocorrect said dino

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

congrats on that girl, hopefully i do😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

i want to but idk how to go about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

oh trust i am. just trying to figure out how to do it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

do you think he’s going to be violent?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

no but ik he will guilt trip me and i’m very empathetic.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

then fuck it, send a text and block him, no guilt there if you already know how he is

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

ykw HELL YEA

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

just say like, i’m no longer happy and this relationship is just a drain on my mental health and it’s been a long time coming and i’m breaking up with you, just something like that something that’s clean and concise so that he isn’t left wondering what you are like that’s it we’re over

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

okay i like this. but imma have to get my stuff from his house which will be awkward 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

just go with a friend and if he says anything, just say we’re done and that you don’t want to talk about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

yea bc of him i have no friends

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

maybe a sibling or a parent because fuck this guy, who the hell doesn’t allow you to have friends?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

yea :/ i might go with my mom

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Lowkey reading this you already regret it. What do you have to lose by leaving him? Not all that much, from where I’m standing You’re more than your virginity btw. Someone good won’t care, so you don’t need this loser. You’ll find someone better, I promise <3 Let yourself be happy

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

yes we broke up :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

we broke up!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Girl even better reason to leave him. there’s so much dick out there & it’s so good 😭 & he’s a bum anyway so

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

we broke up😌

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

someone just upvoted my comment, but I kind of wanted an update from this

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

we broke up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Yes queen !

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