Anonymous #6 1d

Yo ngl a) it’s not always easy letting go of 3 years of your life and a connection on the spot b) it’s an anon app and this is the point 😂 be rude elsewhere

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Anonymous #11 1d

For someone who knows what an anon apps purpose is, you really hate that people can critique on it. You realize that’s the point of it is to get real feedback.

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Anonymous #3 1d

“Keep your business to yourself” - not feedback. Also anon doesn’t have to = being an asshole but I’m sure you’ll argue on that too

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Anonymous #18 20h

Cause have any of the people here read the comments on the last one? He needs to recover or be polyamorous or something if he can’t hold down a relationship/be faithful

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Anonymous #13 19h

i actually agree here if my man is out w his buddies i don’t expect him to constantly text me, maybe an update if he’s out for an insanely long time - but i don’t expect him to be giving his attention to me 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #19 19h

did you read the original post bc there was way more context

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Anonymous #2 19h

nope i actually went back and read it after, that’s my fault in a regular situation, i stand by what i said - but im glad this girl left her cheating ass of a bf

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Anonymous #13 18h

Hey, just want to clarify that EVEN AFTER he did all that to me, all I asked was a text when he left to go out, to know if there were going to to be girls there, and to have an update to know he was safe and not doing something dumb at the end of the night. Also, I set a boundary that if he was going to talk with other women, I want to know what the general conversation was about. He said these were all too much to ask. He said he wanted to go out without having to hold himself accountable.

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Anonymous OP 17h

dang subject of conversation is kinda crazy

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Anonymous OP 13h

Okay so i just read all this and all the comments of the original post and here are my thoughts: 1 - im glad you ended it for your own sake and sanity. he lowkey sounded toxic. 2- i feel like i was in this exact situation. imagine if the situation was reversed. would you want your partner constantly asking you to "give them updates" while you go out with your friends?? i have been where he is. i was in college going to bars with my friends and my ex would spam me with texts and ft calls..(1/2)

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Anonymous #22 13h

..and i wasnt having it. i didnt want to have to constantly be on my phone while im out trying to have a good time. its good you set boundaries with him, but sometimes you have to just let your partner breathe. its not healthy if they feel suffocated and like they cant be on their own without the other person blowing up bc they havent texted them for a few hours. 3 - i was with my ex for almost 4 years so i get it. im glad you didnt let him control you. (2/2)

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Anonymous OP 12h

either way, it didnt sound like it was healthy for either of you and its a good thing you ended it. he sounded like i did with my ex and like he wanted to see other people anyways.

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Anonymous OP 12h

but also, i will say my ex was crazy and went so far as to text my mom when i didnt respond for hours but thats a story for another day...

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Anonymous #13 10h

If u didn’t trust him why be with him a relationship without trust as soon as the trust was gone the relationship turned toxic for both parties

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Anonymous #22 9h

i feel bad for your situation, but this one is different. if you would have read my past comments, you would have known that I only wanted a text when he left, information on what girls would be there, a text if plans changed from what he told me, and when he’d be home. never spammed. never ft. even if it was hours

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Anonymous OP 6h

yes i know that. im just saying like try to have a little empathy. my ex wanted to know all the details too and if there would be other guys there and i told him yes bc it was a college bar. if hes going to any bar in the world there will be other girls there. as far as like type of girls or his friends, idk what you are referring to but they were probably there. anyways he probably didnt want to put in that much effort for you, so again, if a guy doesnt want to try to put in the effort...

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Anonymous OP 6h

its good you end it and not drag it out longer than it needs to be.

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