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chat how do i write neurotypical characters? every time i try, they always end up coming off as neurodivergent 💀
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Anonymous 21h

i don't see why you Have to write someone neurotypical, then, or even think of it in those terms; neurotypical and neurodivergent aren't the two options of a binary but a spectrum as well. so—and not to be cliche—maybe just write the characters as characters first and then tweak them as you deem fit to best serve your story. if that means toning down some of qualities of theirs, then you start looking at it from that lens.

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Anonymous 22h

I just don’t write neurotypical characters, I’m handing out disorders like Oprah “and you get some autism and you get adhd and you’ve got ocd and you’re bi polar and you’re depressed”

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Anonymous 1d

I literally have the same problem. I would suggest writing a list of things that a neurotypical person would not say or do, and once you are editing your page, look at the actions, behaviors, and quotes from your character and compare it to the list. If they are in conflict, take those things out and replace them with a secondary list: this list is of things a neurotypical person WOULD do and say. I hope this helps! If you find yourself stuck, I can help you write the two lists.

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Anonymous 15h

honestly. i just write characters that make no sense to me. because i can't understand neurotypical mindset at all. granted i don't think it comes across well so probably don't take this advice

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Anonymous 18h

How are they coming across that way?

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Anonymous 15h

It takes practice, that’s for sure. It helps to make their hobbies and interests kinda basic lol. Also, just looking up executive function and making sure the character has all those skills.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21h

of course, this is very general advice so take it with a grain of salt, especially if your story is very much about the neurotypical character(s) BEING neurotypical, or maybe about how your neurodivergent character(s) interact with your more neurotypical character(s), and we're very much involved in their headspaces as readers. but even then 🤔

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