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I wrote this poem about my internal struggles with approaching girls:
30 upvotes, 13 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in Writing. "I wrote this poem about my internal struggles with approaching girls:"
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Anonymous 7w

… in your own words you simultaneously give her all the power and then blame her and frame her as a villain for your own perception of the power you freely gave. It’s definitely got feeling but dude, please seek therapy.

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Anonymous 7w

Oh I love this!

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Anonymous 7w

Or just ya know write a poem about practicing holding your own power as you interact with others and seeing them as people as you heal rather than blaming people for the pedestals you put them on.

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Anonymous 7w

OP did. He gives her all the power in the interaction. Makes her responsible for tearing him apart if he doesn’t like what she says. All I’m saying is hey maybe let’s view people as equals and not instantly make ourselves the victims of our own design and frame the other person as an insta-villain and your take from that was apparently “yeah! Take all her power!”

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Anonymous 7w

But nothing in his poem suggests she took advantage of him. He even said this is about his issues approaching women. So by his own words the way to interpret this is he’s always a victim when he approaches a woman and she can (and will) tear him apart. That is his perception.

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Anonymous 7w

I have no idea what you’re talking about now. What break? I’m like missing half of this conversation.

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Anonymous 7w

Lmao you sir have a whole other host of problems. Hope you get some help. ✌️

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Anonymous 7w

Lmao I just responded to a poem and you commented on my response and went off the rails 🤣 there’s been no trolling done.

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Anonymous 7w

Are you like super high or something this early in the morning? 💀

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Anonymous 7w

Ok bye 👋 hoping you are high if not… seek on campus therapy or something or maybe just get some good food and sleep. Idk.

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Anonymous 7w

Promise you bro bro we ain’t friends or enemies and you don’t know me rl 🤣

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Anonymous 7w

I am curious though exactly who do you think I am like… ASL pls? Because I’m not the target demographic for this app.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

*their asl not yours. Idk you 100% guaranteed.

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