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I need some advice: my brother is dating a minor, he’s 25, she’s 16 and she’s also really immature. My mom and I are against it cuz she is constantly starting fights and playing the victim, and we don’t want him to be kicked out of his hobbies. Pt 2 below
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Anonymous 1w

Tell your brother, yourself, and everyone involved that he’s a pedo. No reason to date a TEENAGER when you are over 20. She’s immature cause she is a TEENAGER, she’s acting in accordance to her age

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Anonymous 1w

They got into a massive fight and called it off like usual (this is the fifth time), so my advice is that should I gaslight him into a cord cutting to call it off. I wasn’t for it to begin with cuz she’s a minor. I also hate how they’re long distance and he’s racking up his phone bill cuz he refuses to hang up the phone at night when they are in bed so it’s calls that never end and you can’t get any words in with him to begin with cuz he will bite ur head off.

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Anonymous 1w

To reiterate, should I gaslight my brother into a cord cutting to cut ties with his girlfriend that’s a minor and toxic

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Gaslight others and you will be gaslight. Approach the situation with curiosity rather than overt judgement. You’re missing something in the “why” he’s making these choices.

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