Anonymous #2 4w

unfortunately i tend to date people i meet naturally soooo they’re not always gonna smoke

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Anonymous OP 4w

There's this cool trick I learned, its called get to know people before I start dating them so I can date people who have the specific qualities that I am looking for in a partner. It's actually a lot easier than it looks I'd be happy to teach you how!

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Anonymous #2 4w

girl she can’t help who she falls in love with or is attracted to why would u not date sb js bc they don’t smoke?!?! if you like them then you like them…

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Anonymous #3 4w

girl if she was in love with her man she wouldn't be on yik yak yearning over men who smoke. it's easier to find someone you truly love when they have the qualities you are attracted to. not really a revolutionary concept really.

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Anonymous #2 4w

yearning… oh don’t be so dramatic

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Anonymous #2 4w

i hate the grammarly keyboard when it makes my posts read like a 40 year old mom on facebook i like it for professional emails but damn. always turns on at the most random times possible too

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Anonymous #3 4w

what would you call it?

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Anonymous #3 4w

"my bf is like that. buuuuuuut if he was like THAT id love it that would be so romantic" literally how her post reads, that is not what you say about people you are in love with, and if you think it is im sorry you've never been in love but you'll learn one day 🫶

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Anonymous #2 4w

ur dtm

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Anonymous #2 4w

ur genuinely being so dramatic…. idk what’s up with you.

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Anonymous #2 4w

girl. i don’t consider smoking a “quality im looking for” it would just be a nice coincidence. omg

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Anonymous #2 4w

not yearning over anyone btw

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Anonymous OP 4w

i'm just reading the thing you typed 😂 i'm not being dramatic at all. maybe take a look into how you talk about your man and what says about your feeling towards him.

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Anonymous OP 4w

yearning the idea over someone that is different than your bf is still yearning even if it's not a specific person. how would you feel if your boyfriend said he "would love it and it would be so romantic if you never smoked". you'd probably feel like he dosent love you for you, yeah?

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Anonymous #2 4w

you typed so much more than me???? and there are things i don’t do i’m sure he would like too. nobody you date will ever be perfect ….

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Anonymous #2 4w

yup still not yearning. he would love it if i spoke spanish bc he does and i dont, im sure he’d love if i didnt smoke LOL and no i dont feel like he doesnt love me bc thats being a reasonable person. ur a little too obsessed with my relationship

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Anonymous OP 4w

'obsessed' girl you're the one that fucking posted about it 😂 go tell your man you love him instead of complaining abt him on YY

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Anonymous #2 4w

didn’t complain, just think it’s surprising that as a smoker i tend to date non smokers. and yes you’re obsessed. if you weren’t this convo wouldn’t still be going. also love how you won’t respond to the fact that there are always things you could like that your partner doesn’t do and STILL LOVE YOUR PARTNER! my spanish speaking bf would probably have a great time with a girl who speaks it too, that doesn’t offend me….. but it’s not something so important that he finds it necessary

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Anonymous OP 4w

I'm just responding because you still are babes I don't give a fuck go ahead and block me if it's bothering you so much. You can go ahead and date people you don't like, I'll stick to people I'm attracted to. Sounds like that'll work for both of us 👌 happy smoking!

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Anonymous OP 4w

"oH nO yOu RePlIeD tO mY pOsT oN tHe IntErNeT yOu SuCk!!!!"

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Anonymous #2 4w

i love my bf and i’m very attracted to him but im not a crazy addict who needs my bf to smoke, i usually smoke alone anyway. but bby ur so weird….have a better day

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Anonymous OP 4w

and what i'm saying is it's not something surprising that just happens.... you literally picked your partner out of billons of options, only you control who that is.

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Anonymous #2 4w

ur being incredibly rude lol…. but also “oh no you posted something silly on a smokers yik yak!! let me assume your entire life and relationship and who you are as a person”!!!! show this convo to your therapist lmao

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Anonymous OP 4w

my days been great! have a better relationship 🫶 ya just mad because deep down you know i'm happier than you (my man smokes 😂)

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Anonymous #2 4w

nobody who is “happy” acts like this.

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Anonymous OP 4w

just some objective advice based on your OWN WORDS show this post to your therapist and ask them if they think your BF is right for you

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