US Politics on Sidechat | I’m done with how normalised it is nowadays to be transphobic… A lot of men out there will straight up say they’re not gonna date a woman purely because she’s trans. That’s insane to me!

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I’m done with how normalised it is nowadays to be transphobic… A lot of men out there will straight up say they’re not gonna date a woman purely because she’s trans. That’s insane to me!

Anonymous 23h

We can’t be policing preferences lol. There’s a physiological difference between trans women and bio women and there’s nothing wrong with someone not being interested in either of those groups

Anonymous 1d

I’m a cis guy but I’ve dated trans people in the past, and it’s gotta be so nerve-wracking for straight and bi trans gals trying to date men. Like it’s gotta be really tough trying to go out there and date and not knowing if the guy is going to accept you or not or even if he will react violently when he finds out. I guess trying to date friends or people who make their acceptance obvious from the start could help with that.

Anonymous 22h

If I don’t like someone romantically, the relationship is not going to work out. If they’re a trans woman I’m probably not going to like them romantically, which is okay. I’m not the only option for them. I support their right to be happy and accepted in society like anybody else should be. If everyone respected each other’s differences the world would be a much better place. Those differences include both being trans and having a non-trans dating preference. Let’s all just be kind to each other

Anonymous 1d

I do not apologize for my preference. I prefer my ladies made in womb, not made in clinic…

Anonymous 1d

I wouldn’t. It makes me uncomfortable

Anonymous 19h

To each their own

Anonymous 19h

Blame Christian nationalists and right wing grifters for profiting off transphobic companies to spread propaganda about the community saying their all trying to groom children

Anonymous 1d

I’m done with how normalized it is nowadays that people are trans in the first place

Anonymous

#2 1d

cry about it more

Anonymous

#4 1d

Who says I’m crying? If anything it would be the ones downvoting lol

Anonymous

#2 1d

Now you’re crying about downvotes lol

Anonymous

#4 1d

Does making a comment equate to crying lol

Anonymous

#2 1d

No, you crying does

Anonymous

#4 1d

Very odd that you think I’m crying

Anonymous

#5 1d

In this context it makes a lot of sense why trans people tend to date other trans people so much. Not only do they have shared struggles, but you know they won’t be transphobic.

Anonymous

#2 23h

What’s odd is that you are

Anonymous

#7 21h

How can you say you wouldn’t like most trans women romantically? Like what makes you think that? Genuinely curious

Anonymous

#8 20h

There’s an aesthetic that trans women generally have that I just don’t personally attract to. Like how a middle aged Protestant woman has a certain aesthetic or a New England lobster fisherman has a certain aesthetic. Im sure there are many trans women who could sweep me off my feet, and I have seen lots of beautiful trans women too, but in general it’s not my cup of tea. No group is a monolith and there are exceptions to everything, but that’s how I feel broadly

Anonymous

#8 20h

Its also a societal thing. Trans people are not as accepted as they should be, and people being trans is a hot button issue to a lot of people. It’s uncomfortable being in a relationship where I know certain members of my family may distance themselves from me as a result. That’s a selfish reasoning, but a significant one to acknowledge. If I fell in love with a trans woman that wouldn’t really dissuade me from loving them, but I think it creates a thicker barrier of entry into falling in love

Anonymous

#9 19h

*They’re

Anonymous

#8 16h

Bc they have or had cocks. If you’re a straight man you wouldn’t be into that. Do you have a brain?

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Anonymous

#11 16h

Do you only think of women based on their genitalia? It’s fine to have genital preference but not everyone has the same preference as you, and trans women can have bottom surgery.

Anonymous

#11 16h

It doesnt automatically make you gay to have sex with a trans woman. It doesn’t automatically make you transphobic for not wanting to have sex with a trans woman. And you don’t have to be condescending to people you disagree with