
Ong, ur an unserious person if you wanna claim that her loss had nothing to do with her being a woman. So many of the critiques around her were things that never would’ve come up if she was a man. She had lots of flaws (Gaza policy for example) but she was the better candidate between the two by far
That’s why I think female voters should be sexist against men. If men do it to us, we should level the playing field a bit. Start coming up with ridiculous standards for male politicians. Do it subtly and repeatedly, let the bias against male politicians become sort of an ambient thing that people internalize subconsciously. It will take time, but the results will disempower the Epstein types.
I don’t disagree with the rhetoric but it’s gonna have to be an organic thing and itll take time. I think it’s already started somewhat but unfortunately given our system people know they have to do risk reduction over anything else. If I have to choose between supporting a woman and supporting a man for the democratic ticket, I’ll want to support the woman but know that the man will have an easier time getting elected. So it puts people in a terrible spot
The way the polls were divided speaks to the state of the US when it comes to black people especially black women. Many minorities engage with white supremacy because they believe that in being in close proximity to whiteness then maybe white people will accept them and hardships will go away.
Ok but what are you practically suggesting here? Vibe wise I get it, they have always been the drivers of discrimination against women and minorities so we should discriminate back against them, sure. But practically what does that mean? And how does that change election year calculus given the system we have?
Well it will definitely take time. And organized effort on the part of people who really want to change the narrative. The good news is, spreading stereotypes is easier than deconstructing them. Studies actually show that hearing false statements, even if in the moment you know they are false, can lead your brain to misremember them as true.
So, I think the move would be to invent a bunch of statements to make about male and white politicians that can only apply to male and white politicians, then repeat them a lot. Same with double standards and other subtle tools. And literally just repeat these things over and over during every political discussion. Even if people aren’t receptive at first, they will eventually start to feel like they can’t publicly disagree. Because your confidence and collective speaking make disagreement hard.
Example. Person A: “Remember when Trump did that thing?” Person B: “Ugh, Trump’s voice sounded like sandpaper.” Person B then repeats this insult with every male politicians they talk about. It conditions people to think “male voice in politics, bad” without them even realizing they think this.
WHOA WHOA WHOA. You lot have gone off the rail. This is not the way to do this. We should strive for a world where NO ONE is oppressed not a world of opposites because all that does is beget a cycle. A world of abused becoming abusers only leads to innocent people being abused. No one should want that.
I don’t think it’s better than pushing for equality. I think the two can happen simultaneously. You can love white men in real life and hate seeing them in office. You can defend their right to not be drafted while opposing their presence in positions of power. In fact, minorities and female leadership tend to be better for white men than actual white men.
You cannot advocate for systemic discrimination and equality at the same time I don’t think. That being said, I do think there is utility in leveling the playing field through DEI type initiatives. Bringing women and minorities up to the level of white men. Theoretically I guess you could do the same by discriminating against white men explicitly but I just think that’s a bad approach
But the thing is white men in general arent the problem. They are byproducts of a damaged system. You are going after the wrong thing. If what you plan goes into fruition youll get the same outcome because it’s the system not the people. Also again white women and Hispanic men also voted majority trump. Should we bar them asw?