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Why do men hate women but also want to have sex with them? U can’t have it both ways
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Anonymous 22h

I don’t hate women 🥺

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Anonymous 22h

not a misogynist downvoting this

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Anonymous 22h

sex is taught to be demeaning and devaluing for the one being penetrated. it’s the same reason they mock gay men and see them as “less masculine.” the concept of being penetrated is inherently emasculating in their eyes. it’s all about control and power

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Anonymous 22h

Why is it so normal to just generalize all men? This is obviously a false statement

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22h

are you a misogynist? if not, then you’re not one of the men in question. this type of dismissive deflection is always dogshit because the prevalence of misogyny amongst men has been documented throughout history. so no, it’s not “obviously a false statement”, it’s a factual one aside for a subset of outliers, which is fucked up in and of itself.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22h

I have a fantastic fiance, it’s definitely not all men. But the majority of men today, especially a majority on this page hate women. Point blank. My point for this post was being frustrated with the amount of misogyny and disgusting comments towards women that have surfaced over the past couple months. Yet, they have no problem talking about women sexually. So for those men, u cannot want to have sex with the women you just spoke so horribly about

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 22h

Why make such a blanket statement then? If I saw a black guy on the news commit a crime and I say “why do black men always commit crimes?” Then obviously someone will have a problem with it, I can’t then be like “oh bro if you didn’t commit a crime I wasn’t talking about you”.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22h

So the post was directed towards the men who hate women but also want to have sex with them.. not the men who don’t hate women

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 22h

🫶 you!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22h

there is no way you just tried to defend your dismissals of misogyny by invoking a hypothetical rooted in racism. it is not all men, it is most men; that is the point. the fact that you’re fixating more on that, instead of the topic of misogyny (yk, the actual topic of discussion), displays your intentions clear as day.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 22h

Which is crazy considering the g spot for a man is in his ass

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21h

and it’s not by nature of just being a man, it’s being raised in a predominately patriarchal world that causes young boys to adopt misogynistic views. a form of learned prejudice during one’s upbringing. that results in them not understanding the severity of the views they hold in their adulthood.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

My statement never said all men btw.. it says “men who hate women” if u don’t hate women.. this wasn’t directed towards you!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

yeah that gets into a deeper conversation of how misogyny is deeply rooted in sexual depravity. sex workers come forward all the time saying people don’t pay for sex cause they aren’t getting any, they pay for it to satisfy “fantasies.” the most popular of which are violent rape fantasies and father/daughter fantasies. all because men taught men that sex was conquering and that anything other than bland vanilla sex was “immoral.”

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 21h

I’m not surprised but that’s so fucking disturbing. And hey, I mean u do u (as long as it’s consensual) but I think the ppl wanting these fantasies need to take a step back and ask themselves why.. bc the teacher/student fantasy never sat right with me either. Bc why are there fantasies of adults cosplaying having sex with minors.. ITS SICK ACTUALLY

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

It literally doesn’t say that though, it says “why do men hate women…”

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21h

My bad I forgot the “Who”… don’t have a cow

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

Okay, I just wanted to clarify this point because I immediately interpreted is just a blanket man-hating post that I see super commonly on my school’s page. And to an extent I get it but after a while it just gets annoying when the actions of some dudes are applied to every guy

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