Yeah, attraction is complicated and genital preference is a very real thing. You honestly can’t blame someone for not being attracted to someone’s set, it doesn’t invalidate gender at all since sex and gender are different

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This would also be incredibly invalidating for the trans person if they’re in a relationship with someone who is monosexual (gay or straight). That’s implying the other partner shouldn’t view the trans partner as the gender they’re transitioning to. I’m pan but I would probably end things romantically/sexually if I was monosexual and my partner transitioned, although I’d want to stay friends

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It’s like a huge part of someone’s identity. Nothing wrong with ending things when a person changes a huge part of who they are

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