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it seems like productivity and being nonchalant are more of cultural values than treating other people how you would want to be treated lately. it feels uncanny tbh
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Anonymous 1w

Being “nonchalant” is a fucking social poison. If you’re not just like that, and you’re putting on an act, you’re a massive loser

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Anonymous 1w

i love capitalism

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Anonymous 1w

Can you explain? I think I agree and that maybe social media among other factors are contributing to some sort of change in our interactions with each other

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Sure, I can try! I guess I meant that it seems like especially when people get into conflict, the default/socially normative thing to do is to call out people for transgressing values related to either productivity or nonchalant-ness rather than calling them out for not treating others the way they’d want to be treated in the same situation (which should be normal since that’s how empathy works). I hope that makes sense

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

But i agree totally that social media & the consumption culture that comes with it could be a major cause, yeah

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Agree, it really is a social poison. I think that maybe a lot of people are in environments that make it really difficult not to go with what everyone else is doing though or they might not know any different

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Well that’s all of history no, everyone wants to go with everyone else it’s natural. Just not always good.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

It’s good to believe in things and be passionate and to yell.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I 100% agree with you. Support for each other’s self expression, self-acceptance, and growth, should be the norm

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Anonymous replying to -> _orangutan 1w

🥲isn’t it great?

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