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i started deconstructing when my parents were mad at me for staying in my urban college town for thanksgiving to make plates for the homeless and then told me then were planning to go to israel w their church. in 2024. like ohhhh
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Anonymous 18h

Deconstructing?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

as in doing a closer examination of my christian upbringing and the bible and the faith in general and realizing what i was taught was wrong

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

Yeah I mean absolutely read it yourself and try the things yourself. The first time I read it I wondered how many “Christian leaders” actually studied any of it. But I don’t recommend isolating and judging your parents. Chances are they got tricked by some religious grifter themselves, and you breaking away from them isn’t going to bring them any closer to God/being righteous people.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

Like when you can quote the scripture better than the “leadership” and subtly ask questions… make statements. That’s sort of the ballpark of what Jesus was doing. Traveling from town to town calling out the religious hypocrites for what they were.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

I did. Many times. I had no choice. And then took a class in UG. I made that choice because I was SAd and unknowingly impregnated as a result. Then I had a miscarriage. I still have the picture of what came out. I didn’t tell my parents until a year ago and they told me to get over it. So. I dont hate christianity. but if that was my example..yeah ima cut em off and discover faith for myself 🫪

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17h

That’s a tough road to go down for sure. This might sound strange but for some reason trying the diet/clothing stuff helps immensely. It might not seem relative, but whatever it does for your health seems to compound positively. Wish you well on your journey. 🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11h

funny enough i started questioning it when i watched a batman movie. the villain said something like “if god is all powerful he cannot be all good, and if god is all good he cannot be all powerful” that’s when i started asking questions. ive yet to get a valid answer.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Not to throw any shade on the Batman movie but it’s a bit of a limiting perspective used for character motivation. I get asked at work often enough, why there’s so much evil in the world, or why God would permit evil if he’s all powerful. The simplest answer I’ve come up with studying the stories in the scripture is: If evil was not permitted to exist, doing good would not be a choice. Otherwise we might as well all be NPCs, robots, whatever.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Like yeah he could just lightning bolt every wicked person walking the earth right now, but then you and I would not have the opportunity to choose to be good, to sort out and choose what is righteous, then do whatever that thing is. It gives us an opportunity to be the good with wish to see in the world.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11h

ive heard your pov a bunch. no disrespect to you. but it doesn’t stand. because its not just man. i actually found a flesh fly in my home dead on the sill 2 wks ago. they prey and give live birth to open wounds on any living creature. same class as the eye eating flies in south america. they fly into eyes, lay eggs and eat the eye tissue out. if all creatures are His creation, why would God create things designed to make man suffer? why does he allow suffering at all?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

either He is all benevolent and powerless to stop it. or He can stop it and chooses not to, which makes him not good. Those are the ONLY options. He’s allowing suffering to continue or He can’t stop it. Even if we have free will. If he had the power to redirect he should, if he doesn’t, we have a problem in assuming God is good.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Well. He gave you the power to stop the flesh eating flies… what have you done to combat the suffering they cause?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Did you want to just sit here and watch as God and his agents do all the work?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

As someone who’s aiming to align themselves with God’s will, I’ll happily help you with your fly problem, but hopefully you see what I’m getting at. It’s very difficult, arguably dangerous to put yourself in God’s shoes (don’t let yourself become possessed by pride) but consider if you were writing this story. Would you do so without villains, monsters, creatures of the night to test the metal of those who would combat them?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10h

I think you’re missing my point. I dont deal with this regularly. But if all beings are God’s creation, and the mentioned beings sole purpose is to cause pain in other beings, why did he make them to begin with? We wont overly anthropomorphize God. But it goes back to my point he is either all powerful or all benevolent. Both cannot be true simultaneously and the ONE example I gave is sufficient. I don’t wanna blow up this post in the comments do u can DM me for a theological debate.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

Sure. I’ll DM you. One sec.

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