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ireallylikepancakes

Genuinely what is the point of being socially conservative? Like, you don’t want things to progress over time? Literal old world blues.
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Anonymous 3w

Religion prob plays a role

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Anonymous 3w

What exactly is there to progress—human nature itself? The whole point of social conservatism is that these values have been the foundation of virtually every successful civilization in human history, and however much we might like to think otherwise, we aren’t too different from those who came before us. There are very good reasons underlying pretty much every tenet of social conservatism—reasons that go way beyond any individual or ideology…

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Anonymous 3w

i mean the point is quite literally they are content to not progress and are happy with where things are or were before

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Maybe we shouldn’t put people who don’t want to make things better in power lmfao.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Equal rights, for one.

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Anonymous replying to -> ireallylikepancakes 3w

So you think social conservatism as it exists today opposes equal rights…?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Your gripe might be a bit more with socially conservative politicians who seek to legislate their values on others who may not agree, not with ppl who live their lives in a conservative way

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Yeah? Do you know how many anti-trans bills in the U.S. have been proposed this year alone?

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Anonymous replying to -> ireallylikepancakes 3w

Why do social conservatives not support gender transition? What reasons might they have for opposing it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Every day I ask myself why there are people against transgender rights.

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Anonymous replying to -> ireallylikepancakes 3w

So you really have no idea why anyone would oppose or even just have concerns about the idea of gender transition?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

I can imagine arguments against it, as well as the arguments I’ve heard conservatives give. Neither are convincing.

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Anonymous replying to -> ireallylikepancakes 3w

What’s the best argument you can think of against it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

I feel like I’ve given my stance pretty openly, could you give me yours before I answer more questions?

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Anonymous replying to -> ireallylikepancakes 3w

Fair enough. I disagree with yet don’t object to socially transitioning, but medically transitioning—especially in the case of minors—is just insane

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

That’s not the worse stance to have. I guess I’d consider the “best” (least bullshit) argument being some form of “protect the children” thing where people think transitioning young somehow ruins children’s lives.

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Anonymous replying to -> ireallylikepancakes 3w

Not that I think this.

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Anonymous replying to -> ireallylikepancakes 3w

So you’re in favor of minors medically transitioning then?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

If it’s prescribed and reversible, which many treatments are.

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Anonymous replying to -> ireallylikepancakes 3w

And what treatments are reversible because I’m honestly not aware of any?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

I mean I’m not sure atm of their medical names but some HRT treatments reverse if they aren’t kept up and the same goes for puberty blockers.

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Anonymous replying to -> ireallylikepancakes 3w

HRT is superficially reversible, but I don’t think it’s a stretch to imagine that it could still have serious long-term health implications, do you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

I’m not a doctor, are you? I’ve just read that puberty blockers (at least some) are medically reversible. I haven’t heard about the long-term effects if there are any.

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Anonymous replying to -> ireallylikepancakes 3w

I don’t need to be a doctor. There’s clear evidence that altering someone’s hormones messes with everything from their bone development to neurological development. But let’s put that aside for a moment because I think this goes to the value of social conservatism

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Could I please get a source on that?

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Anonymous replying to -> ireallylikepancakes 3w

Why should we run the risk in the first place? What do we stand to gain by delaying puberty? In that sense, social conservatism acts as a kind of guardrail that actually serves to protect people from very real harm

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Also, I feel like you really glossed over the fact that I advocated for minors transitioning IF prescribed.

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Anonymous replying to -> ireallylikepancakes 3w

Ok, but can you honestly tell me what rigorous basis there is for prescribing that someone medically transition? There are no labs, no tests, and no imaging, so what are we really talking about at that point?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Psychology and some brain chemistry, or do you deny that gender dysphoria is a mental illness?

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Anonymous replying to -> ireallylikepancakes 3w

Oh sure. Here’s one from Pediatrics: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/34497118/

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

I can’t open links.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Let me preface this with saying I’d prefer if minor wait in order to make sure they’re actually trans before seeking medically transitioning. But degrees of gender dysphoria exist and should be considered.

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Anonymous replying to -> ireallylikepancakes 3w

With all due respect, psychology is not rigorous—not even close. And as for brain chemistry, there’s probably something there, sure, but what test is a clinician doing to interrogate that? It’s not something they can directly observe or test for, so that’s not exactly rigorous is it?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Well I didn’t say either was enough on its own. But there can definitely be enough to put together a case. Besides, we’re very off topic now. Conservatives (in the U.S., et least) don’t want trans adults to exist, let alone trans minors.

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Anonymous replying to -> ireallylikepancakes 3w

I don’t necessarily dispute that it’s a mental illness. I object to the treatment. If we applied the same rationale underlying medical transitioning to body integrity dysphoria, then we’d be cutting people’s limbs off. Your subjective belief about yourself just cannot be binding when it comes to medical treatment…

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Anonymous replying to -> ireallylikepancakes 3w

tbf. statistically. most trans adults just don’t want to exist period.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Okay, well you’re getting dangerously close to making both a straw man and slippery slope.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Do they actually not want to exist, or is that due to them living in a society that routinely hates them simply for existing?

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Anonymous replying to -> ireallylikepancakes 3w

they don’t want to exist and realized transitioning didn’t change that truth

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Transitioning decreases suicidal tendencies almost across the board.

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Anonymous replying to -> ireallylikepancakes 3w

I just wish GOP politicians (it is usually GOP politicians) would leave trans folks alone. They’re not hurting or endangering anyone

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

THANK YOU

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

They can have their own views on these things, they just shouldn’t force other folks to constrain to those views

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

That’s a better way of putting it, yeah.

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Anonymous replying to -> ireallylikepancakes 3w

trans people are 18x more likely to attempt suicide than cis people. 🧍🏽‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> ireallylikepancakes 3w

no problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

“These people we call slurs and throw rocks at 24/7 keep committing suicide, must be because of those damned pronouns!”

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Anonymous 3w

Truth.

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Anonymous replying to -> ireallylikepancakes 3w

Yeah I can’t imagine hearing “You will never be a ____ and we will never leave you alone” from MAGA ppl helps anything

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Anonymous replying to -> ireallylikepancakes 3w

yeah

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